I "want" him...him I "Want" !

I don't know why most of people take me for the "bitch" of the story ! It's not like I'm trying to split the lovers apart...

I considered the new manager as a friend and she betrayed me ! She knew what she was doing !
I heard my collegue talking about me and him. I'm so stupid trusting her !

I feel bad and really sad. I know there was something going on between me and him. she ruined it !

I blame her for that.


Now, I don't care about the whole "feeling" thingy. I feel something different, I feel temptation !
I'm not bad, not a biatch or anything.
She's the one who should feel bad about herself.

This whole situation sounds childish and stupid to me, I blame her for making me feel that bad. It feels like i'm 15 again, because of her !

Man, i'm 27, she's 30....

I hate her for ruining a part of my "possible" futur love life !

 

Hello,

did we just dug out the core of the problem ?

Regards
Gyro

 

. . . And, I rest my case.

 

You got to be more clever than her ! Maybe good style, good humor, nice smiles, interesting conversation. Get him engaged and happy, then ask him out for a beer.

 

Are all you guys this hopeless? Jesus christ.

Soon as he wanted you, you ignored him. Soon as he had another chic, you want him. Get the fuck out of his life.

 

You played games, when you shouldn't have and this is the natural consequence.

You can't see the future, and you can't blame your co-worker for something that 'might' have been. Your basically having an emotional reaction over a hypothetical scenario you've built up in your head.

You're treating the halls of romance and love as a game at this point rather than a gracious dance which it's supposed to be.

Get a grip girl, and be classy with yourself and others. Honesty and grace a lot more sexy than the vibe you're giving off.

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Now i'm not going to call you anything offensive because I understand you're hurt and I've been there too as a guy. But learn to handle this well and forgive the unfair things in life that happen to you and you'll have a great life.

(this is a skill you'll need in a healthy long term relationship and marriage as well, might as well master it now)

 

One of the few, anyway. A lot of people have a syrupy fairy tale view of romance, where the timing is perfect and nobody gets offended. So, you'll have to wait out the pincers to get better advice. i have none.

 

Hello,

looks like your advise has worked out for FlowerParadise and we will not see her again :mickey:.

Regards
Gyro