Am I stealing the show at our weddind.

To all women on this forum.
I need as many of your opinions as possible on something, as i can't ask my fiancee cause that would ruin the surprise. I was thinking of playing (guitar) and singing "I cross my heart" by George Strait at our wedding. If i did that while she walked towards me down the aisle, would i be stealing her "light", her "time to shine". I know everyone is supposed to be looking at her at that point and i don't want to steal all the attention. Note that i'm not a great singer or anything like that. I'm not bragging. would you find that romantic or selfish? Thanks

-Don

 

Wow. I like it. I don't think it would steal her show because eyes would be looking at her to watch her reaction.

 

that is incredibly romantic and the words so meaningful, go for it, she and your guests will love it :love: what better music to walk down the aisle to coming straight from the man that she loves. best wishes for a lifetime of happiness.

 

Sure go ahead, if your love is strong, she shouldn't take it personally.

But honestly I'd do that during the reception, but that is ME. If this is something YOU want to do then DO IT!

 

From an ex-groom's (currently husband) point of view:

If you pulled it off, it would be romantic and wonderful.
But,
You MUST NOT screw that moment up for her.

You have no margin for screw up, flubbed note or stage fright.

And you aren't a professional, you can't do this on automatic pilot.
And you are a groom, i.e. nervous.

The risk/benefit ratio is against you.

Sing to her at the reception. There, if you make a mistake, its cute, something to tell the kids about. In the church, if you screw up, its "ruining her moment".

 

post the video ...

 

why you ol romantic you* *:love:>> just to think of doing such a thing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tR3pM9gc3-Q&feature=related"]Jerry Garcia Band - That's What Love Will Make You Do '93 - YouTube


congrats-

 

It is a touching and wonderfully romantic gesture, but I agree with those suggesting doing it at the reception.

 

It sounds romantic to me but only you would know how your fiancee would react. I would vote to do it at the reception. Can you ask one of her friends what they think? Best wishes on the wedding and your lives together.