Sexism isn't cool, guys.

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by DreamingWithAlice, Aug 5, 2012.

  1. DreamingWithAlice

    DreamingWithAlice Guest

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    I know I'm new here, but some of the stuff I'm reading here is really offensive on a number of sexuality and gender-related levels. Male-identified folks, please don't talk about our female-identified brethren as if they are objects for masculine pleasure. Should you really be having whole discussions about where you like to ejaculate on women, or throwing around words like slut and pussy that are inherently derogatory to women? Or deriding female private parts as "smelly" and other immaturity like that?

    A "Love and Sex" forum should be what it says it is, a forum about, well, love and sex. Sure, sex is often misogynistic, but there is nothing "loving" about sexism.

    Let's all be nice and avoid oppressing others directly or indirectly; let's not forget who the "man" really is in our society. :peace:
     
  2. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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  3. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    You said sexism is bad, but then you only mentioned man-on-woman-hating; hypocritical, much?


    Furthermore, your whole post screams sex-negativity. Don't give us shit about sexism, when you are treating sex (which creates all of us) like it's dirty in itself. If it's sexist to cum on a chick; is it self-hate when a gay guy cums on his lover's face?
     
  4. howlyourname

    howlyourname Member

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    I enjoy that here we are able to have fairly candid discussion about love and sex. So sometimes an invisible line is crossed, but I'd hate for us to start worrying about how politically correct our posts are.
    It's also difficult to moderate, because while I don't find the terms pussy and slut particularly degrading or insulting, despite their historical context, others like yourself may.
    In this forum I tend to steer clear of content that I might find offensive.
    Otherwise, most members here are pretty chill and happy to admit they've put a foot wrong.
     
  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I don't want relationship, I just want BANG BANG BANG
     
  6. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Agreed, but for me personally I've stepped into more controversial topics. But I always advocate treating partners with respect at the end of the day.

    If what you want from a partner, isn't a positive experience for them and your partner isn't willing (dirty talk, among other things) then it ought not to be done.

    But on these forums people have to realize that to a point political correct vocabulary are thrown out a bit for discussion sake and discussion alone, not to deliberately offend someone or make them feel put down.
     
  7. wiccan_witch

    wiccan_witch Senior Member

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    As a general rule I try to avoid the Love and Sex and Drug forums because I find most of the posts and posters there could be a wee bit more intelligent.

    But that doesn't mean I don't believe they shouldn't have the right to post about the things that interest them.

    If you don't like the content on the forums - leave them. Newsflash - these are FREE SPEECH forums. That means - within reason - people can say whatever they like, and discuss what interests them. If someone wants to talk about who else has put a pineapple in their pussy while anal humping a monkey - let them. If anyone feels the men in the Love and Sex forums are degrading they can always put said members on their ignore list, or simply avoid those forums altogether. Problem solved. :)
     
  8. Aerianne

    Aerianne Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    There's nothing wrong with realizing that women can be the object of pleasure. There's nothing wrong with guys discussing where they'd like to ejaculate on a woman. Just as there is nothing wrong with using the word slut or pussy. It's not even wrong to discuss the odor of pussies.

    As adults, we are at ease with our sexuality. If you aren't there yet, you may not be mature enough for this forum.
     
  9. StpLSD25

    StpLSD25 Senior Member

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    I agree with Aerianne on this one. We are free and mature individuals. There are sexist people on this forum, but I think you're being overly sensitive..
     
  10. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    Why is cumming on women's bodies sexist? It's not like he's taking a crap on you. Calm down love.
     
  11. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    You can't poop on a lady anymore without being a sexist?
     
  12. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    Asmo...alright, on the chest...if I ever hear you've pooped on a chick's face I'm writing you off as a woman-hating scumbag forever and I'll probably create a whiny angsty misguided thread about it.
     
  13. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I thought they digged that but obviously will try to restrain myself from now on!
     
  14. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    You completely misogynistic bastard. I can't believe you just said that on a forum. I'm feeling so totally angry about that right now. And about jizz and guys wanting to fuck girls...

    Sorry, I was disappointed I never got to do that thread.
     
  15. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

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    Shouldn't you be in the kitchen?
     
  16. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    The rules are the same for everyone

    Oh, isnt how horrid how men objectify women. Then straight guys out of your league that dont are assholes, gay guys prettier than you are disgusting and surprise surprise any girl thats a threat to your boyfriend/husband is a slut or a whore
     
  17. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    The only reason sexism doesn't affect me is because I am more of a man then any man I know.

    Wanna see mahhh package? ;)
     
  18. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

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    Yes. I do ;)
     
  19. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    What is inherently deragatory about those words?

    Other than that YOU make them that way, with YOUR sexist view of them?

    There's also the apparent underlying feminism in your post, which is very sexist, as well.
     
  20. Rudenoodle

    Rudenoodle Minister of propaganda Lifetime Supporter

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