How to manoeuvre into sex more effectively?

Sorry if this is in the wrong forum, please move if need be.

Whenever me and my boyfriend are fooling around intensely i.e. obviously leading up to sex, I always tend to ask 'Do you wanna..?' and he nods, and then we obviously have to get the condom, etc.

Is there a better way to manoeuvre into sex without me having to ask him, and is there a better way of being able to get the condom in a more subtle way?

 

Keep one in your bra so when he takes it off he knows what you want

 

For legal reasons a guy always should always hear a verbal "yes" to sex that is genuinely sincere from the girl without any outside pressures other than the girl's own sex drive. But legal reasons aside you don't want to cause this kind of problem ever because of the psychological damage it can invoke.

What you're doing isn't bad or broken, but I don't recommend removing verbal communication altogether in initiating sex, using body language only (in court there have been cases where a legal defense was used between boyfriends and girlfriends and husbands and wives where the female in question was ruled to have been raped and was in such emotional confusion and shock that she might not have said "no" or "stop". I agree with the court's decision as well.

Guys are horrible at reading body language, girls shouldn't expect to be able to communicate she's willing to men using body language alone because it blurs the line of what men consider "teasing but obviously not consent" and what is genuine consent.

 

Tell him, "I sure hope Mr. Winky brought his raincoat tonight, cause it looks like it's gonna be a wet one". Just kidding. Don't say this.

 

for legal reasons nothing. sorry but if you know the law then you know it's up to partners not to involve the law.
basically, under the right circumstances, it can be considered legally rape if she didn't say yes to a certain part of sex, even once they were deep into crazy fucking.
only a feminist donkey or a prudeman would ever consider that real rape, but the courts can be more extreme in their intolerance than common sense people.


how old are you? just start doing it. unzip his pants and start puttng the condom on him, without asking. start blowing him and hand him a condom. take your clothes off in front of him. make a face like you're so turned on. grab him. say "let's fuck, get the----whatever you call a condom".
didn't you take elementary english class where you have to use 2 different sentences to say the same thing? just think about how you could ask "do you wanna" to mean that you want to fuck, with a different sentence.

 

Still you got my point...the courts don't use common sense in these matters sometimes.