rejected badly?

i love this girl and we have been talking for a few months now. yesterday i was talking to her and she just came out with "i have my eye on someone else. i am so sorry" i them wrote "ok" and that was it.

what should i do? should i ask if she was serious? should i go in straight and tell her that i love her?

SOS

 

just move on dude i know it hurts but there are million of other woman in the world and there will be one that wants you . dont beat yourself up about it this just happens

 

suck it up.

 

but she could have been joking about it. could'nt she?

 

Perhaps. So-let her know you'll be her 'run to' guy if it goes wrong for her.
Don't slavver,just state the truth. Y'never know.........

But meanwhile,life goes on,bro.

 

This kind of stuff is best dealt with face-to-face, in person, as opposed to via other methods. I recently got turned down myself, but she and I are still friends. It's life, and it's beautiful. You either dwell on the negative aspects and feel miserable, or enjoy all the positive aspects and try to be as happy as you can.

All the best!

 

It may be hard to see this now, but it was good of her to be honest with you, albeit her presentation was a bit harsh. It would be worse if you got involved with her and found out she was sneaking around with someone else.

 

Pshhhh move on who has time for games I sure as hell don't if u were making a joke that's ur problem I am not about to sit around pondering your intentions

 

Exactly.

 

I have never seen the word 'slavver' before.

but I learned through google that it's sort of a slang term meaning to tell lies or talking shit, is that right?

I'm interested.

 

Sort of,Buck...in the UK it refers to going ott when telling someone you're romantically interested,overdoing the bullshit when relating a story,[you know the sort of thing..."There woz ten of 'em all wiv iron bars and all I had woz my freshly sharpened pencil-I laid 'em all out wivvit!"] or just plain being a knobcat.

 

Yeah, I figured it was more of a British thing.

 

if you just talk for a few months and don't go beyond that, you've already been rejected for a few months.

 

Dude, you are BLESSED to have been rejected this way. It's a straight up answer that you have received, instead of like her being vauge, giving you attention and then nothing going nowhere until you hear a rumor she's with someone else.

^story of a high school rejection right there.

(sidenote: telling her you love her, after she gave you a straight up answer is going to freak her out and tell her your mentally unstable and unable to handle rejection)

 

Thank you for all the advice guys

 

Just be out dude...whatever you do, dont chase her, tell her you cant live without her or beg! You'll look sad as hell in her eyes.

 

^adding to that, if you start begging, guess what the girls are going to gossip about in the girl's bathroom...

You'll get labeled a clinger or a creep, and it can hurt you at attempts to get with other girls you'll genuinely have feelings for.

This is what I mean, by putting a girl on a pedestal thinking her rejection means the end of the world because it doesn't.

 

I'm a advocate for online seduction methods...here's one by a guy Ron Steven.


When one of my clients Joseph got dumped by his girlfriend a
couple of years ago, he tried really hard to get her to take her
decision back.

He told me that reminded her of every good thing they went
through during the course of their relationship and he promised
that he would no longer take things for granted.

He also told her that they would go on trips every few months for
some quality time (this is embarrassing, but true

Did it work in the end?

NO. (That was why he came to me...)

I told Joe: "It didn't work because you you tried to get her MIND
to change... and that is something hard to do."

You see, that's almost like attempting to convince extremely
religious people to stop believing in God. Or suddenly convincing
atheists that God does exist.

Instead, I made Joe understand that he had to get her MOOD to
change (in his favor, of course).

Now since their relationship ended in quite a crappy state (and
he was the "big jerk"), she ended up developing many negative
feelings towards him naturally.

So if Joe wanted to have the smallest chance in winning her back,
that needed to change. He had to help her forget about those
things and instead start associating himself with more positive
feelings.

In short, Joe had to make her FEEL great about him as opposed to
FEELING like she could live with never seeing him again.

This is how Joe survived - he reversed the breakup by
"Reseducing" her. You can get the same results if you follow my
proprietary ReSeduction techniques here:-

http://www.reseduction.com/getherback.htm

Best,

Ron Steven
Creator of ReSeduction

 

Here's one more...this will make alot more sense and be much more helpful...


There are a lot of things that guys mistakenly do after they go
through a breakup, but there is ONE PARTICULAR MISTAKE that is
common yet so DAMAGING that it had to be singled out to ensure
that:

a) You do not commit it
b) You avoid it when it is right in front of you
c) You can fix it in case you have ALREADY committed it

This mistake is basically showing her how desperate you are for
her. This could include doing certain things, like:

* Telling her how much you love her repeatedly
* Calling her all of the time to see how she's doing
* Asking (and begging) her for another chance
* Making sure she knows you are "meant for each other" and that
your life means nothing without her
* Telling her how much you love her or that you will never
leave her, no matter what

All of these things say one thing and one thing alone: you want
her back desperately. This will result in her:

a) Pushing you away even more, and worse:
b) Being reassured that breaking up with you was the right
thing to do

Your girl would like to get the old you back because she doesn't
like the guy you have become. Besides, women hate needy guys -
the complete opposite of what you once were during your first few
dates together.

You have to know that you only have a small chance of winning her
back. So, if you keep making a negative impression on her, that
chance will go to zero and you will never have the chance to win
her back again.

Now, I know how hard avoiding this mistake is (if not downright
impossible) and because of this, most guys end up falling through
that trap. This is natural, though, since most people who go
through rejection will think of doing this.

If you REALLY want to get her back, you have to make several
changes - RIGHT NOW. You can start by avoiding these mistakes at
all times.

The easiest way to avoid this vital mistake would be to ensure
that you do not seem desperate. Just re-read, internalize and
fully take the solution to the first common mistake I sent in my
report. I cannot keep telling you how vital this would be or how
much it could change your situation's outcome.

If this mistake has already been committed, then stop doing it
and fix it now while you still can.

It's still not too late to get her back... but the clock is
ticking. Everything you need is in the ReSeduction program:-

http://www.reseduction.com/getherback.htm

 

I've seen a lot of those Homie B, and I gotta say they have a good central message but they're obviously selling you something at the same time.

Have you used similar advice to convince your wife to get more intimate with you Homie?