I love her so much. But she has some self-confidence issues that make her think that she's holding me back from something better. This leads to her denying that I love her, which is absolute hell. There have been several arguments along this vein.
She needs to emotionally grow up, and she's dug a hole far deeper than male common sense can bring her out of. How come girl posters never show up in these threads? Can..they not explain it themselves or do they not want to?
I think it's the female bashing threads that were being made that drove away a lot of female traffic.
Self-confidence.....is a rare commodity in the female segment of our population. I'm a suffer of low self esteem, must of the time. If you want this woman you'll have to find a why to re-assure her over and over and over and over again. Sad but probably true. Damn us women to hell for being such flakes. But I'm probably running with about the most flaky of us femme fatals..... Hang in there.....be romantic, be patient....that's all I gots to say about that.....out.
Tbh none of those threads ever really got down to specific trading of information either. Just ended up being a springbroad for some of the guy forumites to theorizie. Would have loved to see the ladies spit out their knowledge or viewpoint, but they didn't. Maybe it's in the way we communicate, or maybe the intricities of mating is a whole new world for women. I continue to have NO idea because nothing get's shared :/ I repped Marebare btw. I'm not always bashing.
I know, i'm just saying I think it got to intense. I mean guys when were making our arguments, we argue hard and constant until we win. Look how i treated that gourkie guy or however you spell his name. I'm just saying the argumentation probably went to far and it caused an exodus from them even commentating in the relationship forums. I tried to be a more centrist though in the argument, and more of a let's explore this angle kinda poster...
She sounds like a weak person her self logging will hold u down with her fly away little dove fly away
As understanding as you're trying to be, I think they (the chics) were just more concerned about defending girls or their image, instead of getting down to business and trying to educate or explain. I don't think a lot of them have given it detailed thought, as much as a man trying to get laid would, and they'd probably follow girl code and not unveil much anyways. At least... that's the results I've come up with. Like Cherea said, either it doesn't want to be discussed or it can't. There's something awfully fishy about that...
