Anal advice please.

I have been having anal sex with several guys the past couple years. Strangly I find it more intense and deeper orgasms then vaginal sex. Just wondering if I am different . When a man goes in my ass it kinda hurts at first. He then gets to a spot where it feels like almost a breaking point. Then my ass just seems to in a way suck his whole thing all the way in, in about a second. is this normal?

Seems like my girlfriends say they tighten up and nothing can get in. Once that breaking point gets broke though I almost feel like my ass will just suck in just about anything. I have an odd craving for a really big penis, But kinda afraid it will do that thing and suck it all in to far.

Any reason why I can't control it after that point. I wish I could desribe better so someone may answer.

I guess it's just he may get about and inch in about and then all of a sudden it hurts just a titch. Then it's like a flood gate just opens and pulls whatever is there all the way in. Dunno if that makes sense since like I said earlier my GF's don't say that. most men have been gentle. I would just like to be able to control that flood gate a bit since it is a bit scary.

Am I broke? I mean the feeling is amazing once is just pulls in, I would just like a bit more control so I don't pull somone in to far.

Any info would be appreciated.

 

there is no cervix in the colon ..

 

Thanks for the reply. That didn't help much though. I will look up what you said online though.

 

The "breaking point" is your second(internal involuntary) sphincter.

It is uncontrollable for EVERYONE. That "flood gate" feeling stems from the fact that after that second sphincter your rectum opens up wide and is much looser than your vagina. In other words all the tightness is in the first 1.5 inches or so. After that its open emptiness. So naturally it will "suck" in anything at that point because there is no resistance. Hope that helps.

 

Yes makes sense for the most part. Without being an anatomy major. . Can anything be broken in the "emptiness area" I have felt some small pains deep inside but they are kinda of the pleasure, pain variety and do not bother me.

 

I've taken large men and toys back there. Haven't broken anything yet. Well, except a few hearts........ Lol

 

Good to hear. I would hate to think I couldn't do it anymore. I guess I just probably need assurace I am a small girl and It seems like something could break sometimes.Nothing has yet but I worry if I find a rather large hung man.

Thank you good to know.

 

An ex of mine was small, maybe 5'3" and less than 48 kilos (thats only about 110 pounds) and very slim. She could take all of me all the way once we eased it in. She actually preferred anal because her pussy would sometimes bleed if we went too hard, but anal never did any damage.

 

That's exactly how I feel. Seem likes I can fit anything after a certain point. I am 5'4 116 lbs so I know the feeling . Sorry to hear she has that other problem though. Don't know what it is but doesn't sound fun. I guess I am just streatchy all over or something who knows.

The biggest I have ever had analy is probably about 7 inches(just an estimate) I crave to feel alot bigger in my ass seems like I would have no problem with it but i just don't want to be wrecked.

 

I'm over 8 and thick, and her rear just gobbled me.

And she's an ex, but thanks for your kind words.

 

Oh an ex missed that.

Gobble is one way to put it. Never thought of it that way.

8 and thick would be scary. I was probably being generous on the 7 inch end. I would like to try though. As I said seems after a little bit anything goes. I dunno I love it alot... It's just scary. I need to get over that.

 

Well just an update. I have ordered a 10" real feel toy. Excited and scared. I can't wait to get it though. I feel more assured from all the posts I read so just gonna give it a try. The thought of 10" passing that flood gate is kinda making me shake with nerves as I am writting this.

 

You should be fine. That flood gate you speak of is long and can take a lot. I'm average size and my wife has been taking my whole dick in her asshole for years and years with no issues. I remember the first couple times we did anal it seemed like I was hitting something after the first 3-4 inches. We both thought it might have been poop. . That's not the case, it's that flood gate or entry into her colon which now opens up easily. I'll admit, it's not as tight deep in there as it is in the first area. Still feels great though and she loves it.

Good luck!

 

Thanks, if you don't see me post in a few days. It probably killed me.

 

there's sigismoidal curve up there, and if he's too long he can bang into it instead of following the curve. that might hurt a little bit, go easy. but if you keep going deeper easy then it can straighten out - if the guy is really long he can get into your colon, but we're talking really long (9-10" at least?) any girls done this?

but if you're using a guy's cock and you've got lots of lube and it doesnt hurt, then there's nothing to worry about. Go for big!

the challenge i have isnt length, it's width! my guy is like 2.5" wide or a bit more! i want to be able to take him in one shot with minimal foreplay, like just be ready for him always maybe jsut a bit of spit!!... still working on it!!! )

whats the thickest you have taken that does this 'suck in' thing?

 

I have felt something weird up there techically yeah i guess it hurt but in a good way. Not sure if it is what you are referring to or not. I have not taken a very big one. I would like too though at the risk of sounding whoreish I would love a man deep. However now you kind scare me again, if somethign can go wrong back there.

 

Oh I missed the suck in thing! Does that not happen to you? I havent taken very big 7" max and that's pushing it. As I stated in my previous posts after and inch many two they are just all the way in. Is it not like this for you?

 

I have a question for you about this "suck in" thing, cuz I'm basically the opposite. I can get my 8" into me pretty easily at this point (had it a a number of years), and after the first 1-2 inches are in I can basically freely move it from 2" to 6" with no resistance. At that point it reaches the sharp turn in my rectum and it takes a little playing with the dildo to manually straighten me out. Once I get myself straightened out I can go from outside to 8" deep freely and it feels great.

However, no mater how deep it is (1" to 8") if I let go of the dildo, it will start sliding out, at first slower and then basically shoot out of my ass. I bet I could get some air time on that baby, without trying at all. I've actually tried to keep it in and nothing I do will keep it inside me besides my hand or some other force holding it in. I never considered this odd or a bad thing, just normal, cuz that's what poops does, go out, so why would my dildo do anything different? You know?

So my question for you is, once you get your dildo, after you've gotten yourself all worked up and it slides in and out really easy, if you get it halfway in and just leave it there, will it actually be sucked into you or slide out, like me? I'm really curious lol.

 

No, you're doing it right! Don't worry! =)
A person will have very intense orgasms if the anus is stimulated or penetrated.
Your anus is full of nerves connected directly to your clitoris.
Hell, a man can involuntarily ejaculate if he's stimulated in the anus enough.
It's completely natural for you to "suck" the penis inside.
It means that your bum has relaxed and is willing to let something enter it.
You're doing it right. You don't have anything to worry about. =)

 

Thank you