What does anal really even feel like?

Well some girls prefer anal. Don't close your boundries

 

you would be suprised what 100,000 nerve endings feel like. It's dreamy. Just make sure your guy takes his time.

 

Already lots of answers but not many people actually answered your question.

So here you go in a bit more detail from the perspective of a girl:

At first, frankly, it feels a lot like you are pooping except that it's going in AND out instead of just out. But that's not a bad feeling just very weird at first. You have to tell yourself that you are not actually pooping all over as it's happening because it certainly feels like you are. It DOES hurt a bit at first too or at least feels somewhat uncomfortable. It's not terrible though, especially if you've prepared a bit before hand (used lube and prepped yourself a bit before hand by using fingers or something else).

After a bit more the feeling becomes a kind of pressure almost in your body and depending on how fast he goes the friction can be pretty interesting in a mostly good way as long as he starts fairly slow.

The absolute best part for me is when he actually comes inside my ass. With my pussy I basically can't tell that my boyfriend is coming in me. His pace and outward body signals tell me, but I can't feel it at all in my pussy really. With anal it's totally different I can feel his penis twitching and pumping the come into me and I feel extremely connected to him at those moments. It's a wonderful feeling.

If you enjoy being a bit submissive there's a lot of great mental aspects to it as well. The fact that it hurts a bit and is uncomfortable can be it's own turn on since you know you are then doing it for his pleasure alone which is it's own reward.

I can't say that for me its something I love in terms of the physical feeling (except for when he comes) as it does feel uncomfortable for me during and always a hurts a bit at first even when I'm prepped and lubed up. But mentally I love it. And I love how much my boyfriend loves it.

Is it worth it? Yes, in my opinion. But to each their own of course.

 

If you do it, when & if you do break up with your bf, you will feel used. You will at some stage sooner or later realize that you let yourself down. Personally, I don't see how you could let yourself be seen like that. To think that poo might be coming out your ass, and that he might laugh!!! There are too many porn movies these days giving men the impression that these degrading acts are normal. A woman has to have certain boundaries. Never give your whole self to him, always keep him wanting more; although he might not say it, this will make him respect you more.

 

Well that doesn't sound very fun at all!

 

Hmmm, feeling the cum and the twitching and pumping, sounds like such a huge turn on. I may just try this one day

 

If you insert a dildo / vibrator inside your anus with aid of plenty of lube - you get a good idea as to how something feels going inside you & how it feels going in & out. It can be very arousing if you don't mind a bit of self exploring.
With a sex toy, you just don't have the cum going inside you as well - just lube that lasts longer & smells better - depending on what you buy?
You can also use wider / larger toys when you feel more comfortable with yourself.

 

when i asked my ex what it's feels to have anal sex and why she like it. she answered that she like something deep in her ass. lately i found that when she was masturbating she always did anal stimulation. she was fingering her ass. all i can say is she loved anal play very much.

 

I agree. I think alot of it is mental though. The thought drives me wild sometimes.

 

Pathetic post......

Pathetic poster.

For a couple reasons.

 

I really like this post, except to say that it doesn't have to hurt, in my opinion, at all!

I have one dildo that it about 7" long, starts out hardly more than .5" and widens out to a little over 1". With just a little finger play I can easily get the tip in me (no pain whatsoever, it's only a little bigger than my thumb) and I then pump it in and out, each time relaxing my ass and going a little deeper. Each time it will go a little deeper.

I personally just use a butt plug I like which is very similar but only 3" long, and is even pointyer. I can get the tip in my ass as easy as any finger, and I even force it in a little bit (still zero pain!) you just gotta relax, take it slow, in and out. I don't use lube either. Start with some spit and my toy gets plenty wet from the inside of my ass.

I wish people would stop saying that it hurts, because it really doesn't have to.

 

I didn't mean to say it HAD to hurt. But for me it always starts at just slightly painful and then moves to slightly uncomfortable. Not painful per say but certainly not "oh yeah!" in the physical sensations department. I suppose my boyfriend could be a bit big for me or possibly it's just something that my body will never feel awesome from it. The mental pleasure from Anal is more than enough though so I can deal.

 

This thread is not for insulting. My facts still stand unrefuted. Please don't make insults if you can't back them up

 

I personally love anal, but it took me a little bit to get there.
You have to train your anus to relax and allow him to insert you.
Trust plays a big part in anal.
Just tell your partner that he needs to take it slow. The reward will be worth the wait.
Be sure to use lube. Possibly even get some anus numbing cream. (Don't use too much, or his penis will go numb. xD)
Your orgasms will be considerably harder and quicker with him inside you.
Within 5 minutes of rubbing your clit, and feeling him inside you, you'll have a very intense orgasm.
Well.. That's how it works for me. xD

 

Just be sure that you're clean and be sure to go to the bathroom before hand. xD You won't have any problems then. <3

 

You did not start this thread, who are you to say what it's for?

On the subject of insulting, you insult many millions of men and women the world 'round with your ridiculous statements, even those related to sexuality in general, and not anal sex.

I did not refute your "facts" because they are so silly, but if you insist.....

Your argument is essentially that anal sex involves giving in, and letting yourself down, in an inherent and inescapable way. That you are giving up something, and being exploited, when you have a particular type of sex, and that it is inherent to that type of sex.

You seem mortified at the fact that he could see some "poo" when having sex with your butthole. Well, I'll be, poo there? How horribly humiliating! What if he *gasp* LAUGHED?

Maybe you care way too fucking much about who sees what, you seem to be in a shell, whilst simultaneously on a high horse. If you don't like it don't do it, but stop telling other people that your irrational fears and/or inability to chose a trustworthy partner inherently colour all anal sex ever had by anyone.

You worry about men's opinions of women, but then you seem to think that you can get respect by being, essentially, a frigid bitch. Nobody will ever respect someone, or have a healthy relationship with someone, who uses sex as a weapon and a tool of spousal control. If one partner wants things the other does not, work out a compromise or separate, but you seem to not understand what it means to be on an even footing in a relationship.

The assumptions you make, about anal sex being inherently degrading, about men inherently trying to gain control over women through humiliation, about women being able to avoid this and have a legitimate relationship by not wanting to give their partner the sexual gratification that is an inherent part of healthy relationships, these are all incorrect and outright toxic: you are insulting to many people of both sexes (and all the in-between sexes and orientations) and directly encourage women to put themselves in malevolent paranoid positions that will directly lead to the end of a relationship.

So even if my disagreeing with you is an insult, it's a much lesser insult than you are directing at a very good portion of the population of each gender, who have been having and enjoying anal sex for many reasons, for many thousands of years.

If you don't want anal sex, it's really simple, don't have anal sex and don't choose a partner who wants to have anal sex. You have an obsession with sexual control of a relationship by one partner or the other.

And if nothing I said was a proper insult: You are a paranoid hateful shrew espousing toxic opinions that will only hurt your own cause.

 

Wow.

 

Obviously nothing is going up your ass because your head is blocking the way. Some women really like anal sex. If you don't like it oh well but this post reeks of judgement of porn and people who like it. Who is to say if she has oral sex or regular sex that she won't feel exactly like you described. Opinions are like assholes everyone has one and no one will admit that theirs stinks.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

All this is really sad. It can be a buetuifull thing. If you want it. If you don't no problem. I wouldn't pass judgement though.

 

Oh please!!!I really like anal sex a lot and I am a happily married woman.