Thinking about adding a +1 to my sex life...

I tend to be a very sexual lady. I like lots of sex, I have lots of toys and am a multiple orgams type of gal. I've had a lot of partners but when I'm in a relationship I like to be monogamous. Single me is up for anything.

I enjoy having sex with my bf, its great but I'm starting to think that maybe things aren't working out anymore. He is in the military and was away for most of the summer, this was the longest time I've gone without sex since I lost my virginity, lol. Since hes been back we've only been having sex once or twice a week.

He knows that I've done the whole multiple partner thing in the past while single and has mentioned to me about wanting to share me with someone. I'm starting to think about maybe going for it but I'm still unsure of it. I think my problem is that I'm not the smallest lady around and sometimes get a little self conscious. I wouldn't know if I'd feel comfortable having another lady in the mix in worry that he'd like her better and I don't know how fair it is if I'm the only one that gets to have fun with someone else.

Advice?

 

Trust your gut and do what will make you the most happy! Don't do it for someone else or you will regret it.....

 

I can only speak for myself, but the girl that lets me have other girls is the girl I keep.

 

If you are insecure in any way with yourself or your relationship then dont do it. If you are secure, trusting and communicate honestly with your partner then yes do it. My lady and I are in too this lifestyle and both love the xtra excitment it brings to our already amazing sex life! We both also love and respect each other completly and neither of us do it because we feel we need to. Just do it because we want to and we can.