OMG! Why me I'm so embarressed!

It's no big deal, it's part of the job I'm sure he's just really happy you are in to it!

 

Sex is messy Wipe it up and move on

 

If you enema often won't it cause bowel problems?

 

Nope! So far so good. No problems. I guess my bowels are used to it. I obviously use plain water. No chemicals.

 

My wife is a nurse and refuses to ever use an enema before anal sex.
I suppose they remind her of unpleasant experiences? She claims they are messy and unnecessary and I agree.
I check my dipstick after a bit of insertion & anal play. If there is poop on the dick I tell her and we head to the bathroom. She poops and cleans her butt again while I wash off my dick. She claims that a dirty dick irritates her butt hole and takes the pleasure out of anal sex.
The smell doesn't do anything to enhance the experience either.

You certainly should not be ashamed about your BF getting some poop residue. After all, what did he expect might be in there?

Good butt sex requires an openness and intimacy between the partners. It is a chance to explore and build trust.
Remember, shit happens and it is no ones fault.

 

I find that water based lubes such as KY have a tendency to cause more mess. They tend to loosen anything that is there in a way oil based don't. I prefer vaseline.

 

Ahh yes, good old Vaseline. Cheap & effective.
I used it for many years and it worked well.
KY is kinda cold & creepy feeling by comparison.

Now we use Alberto VO5 hair dressing which is basically Vaseline with lanolin & fragrance.

Interesting that you think water based lubes cause things to loosen up inside.
People seem to think they wash off easier but we never have any problem washing off the petrolatum (Vaseline) based lubes.
I heard one couple recommend Nivea Soft hand cream as the perfect anal lube.

 

I have only experienced this 2 or 3 times in all the time we have been having anal sex and that was due to her being a bit unwell. Can't say I minded though, am happy to pay that price to get in her ass

 

Shit happens!!!

 

I like to use an enema to keep that from happening. But accidents will still happen!

 

yes it's normal....if you play in the poop yard....well, shit happens.....next time just take and sensual bath or shower together

 

I'm really not a fan of anal sex and i can understand why you would be embarassed but at the same time it is something natural...

I did my x boyfriend in the butt with a marker and it came out with poop on it.
It was just a marker so i threw it away LOL....

I agree though you can just take care of that by having a bowel movement, clean it well and have an enema problem solved.
I do think he is a douche bag if hes that put-off from that to not talk to you anymore....
There are plenty of men out there girl!

 

Don't worry about it. I love anal and I'm fine with a little incidental poop from time to time. We know what we are getting into and it's expected to occur sometimes. Your bf will be back for more. And if not, I would like to fill in for him. ; )

 

how do you have spontaneous sex then?

 

^ With my boyfriend I have a pretty good idea about whether sex is in the forecast. I am far more more likely to over-prepare than under-prepare, that's for sure. But for truly spontaneous sex, I would still finger myself. If I don't feel clean, I avoid backdoor sex. Pretty simple.

 

Most people who have a healthy body and good diet will also have a clean rectal barrel.
99% of the time everything will be fine without an enema.
It's that 1% that can be embarrassing.
For me, there's been nothing more than a slightly discolored ring on him, but it still ..... you know!
Has it ever put me off? No!
and if whoever it is is that precious ......

Don't be embarrassed. It's hard, but it can and probably will happen.

 

I like getting shit on me

 

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Did you happen to get ass fucked again or did he come by again?? Did you orgasm?

 

Maybe I've been with the wrong girls. Anal has always been about a lot of trust and patients from both partners.
If you offered up or allowed him to have anal with you, he should totally overlook what happen at the end, and enjoy the fact that he had you.