ok ive been dating this girl for a while, i proposed to her she said yes, and well she has never spoke to me since the proposel, and thats like a month ago, ive been writng her and writing her. well what should i do, iam feeling hurt right now. and just wish i knew what to do thats all
wow thats harsh. i dont know all the details of the situation obviously becuase i'm not part of it, but it sounds to me like she doesnt care enough about you. if she's not even bothering to contact you, she must not be thinking about you too much. and you deserve better. everyone does. of course it could be some sort of misunderstanding? thats a tricky situation all you can do is keep trying. good luck
Any chance a person is intercepting your attempts to contact like family or a twisted friend ect? I dont understand why the "Yes" then the no contact issue. I hope it works out there guy...
it sounds like she changed her mind and isn't strong enough to tell you. i don't know the specifics of your situation, but that's what it sounds like to me. how frequently do you two see each other or talk? is this a long distance relationship where you don't see each other often, and it might be acceptable to go a month without speaking? it's terrible that this happened to you. like theleprechuan said, you deserve better because it sounds like she isn't very considerate. in a way, consider yourself lucky 'cause this would be a lot harder further down the road (say, if you two were living together and she suddenly packed up and left without warning). did you give her a ring? since she's avoiding you, you can get your ring back, and thus your money back. i know it sounds like a trivial thing compared to what must be going on in your mind and with your emotions. but if you got one and it set you back, at least you'll have less money-related stress. good luck getting ahold of her to sort all of this out. i hope things turn out for the best.
well heres the thing, i dont mind if she dont want me, just tell me, and stop leavieng me in the dark u know?, well i know this one girl that really loves me and she said she wants to drive from florida up here to see me, and she said she would stay here, she calls me everyday and such,
yeah, it's ridiculous that she didn't tell you anything. avoiding your calls/letters is a horrible way of going about this. it's crazy how things happen... your 'fiancee' can't exert enough effort to answer the phone or reply to a letter, let alone see you.. but then the girl in fla is talking about driving up to see you. the girl from florida sounds so much better. it's crazy, cause part of finding out what you want in a relationship is finding out what you DON'T want. and obviously, you don't want someone who refuses to be around. florida, on the other hand, is putting out some effort, and she definitely digs you... so you're lucky to have her around, and be free from your heartless ex. one refuses to call, the other calls every day; deciding which is the better woman for you has just become a million times easier.
yeah, thanks for the advice, its offical the one in florida and i are now dating, iam just sick of being tossed alriound at least now iam with someone who really cares and loves me
i;m not saying this wasnt a bad thing for her to do, but maybe she wasnt ready for this. maybe she just freaked out and felt it was easiest to leave, and get out of the situation. nad maybe she'll comr back to you. porbably not. now i see you're with somone else. so that's good
just a breif up date in feburay shes coming up from flroida shes moving here to me, for once i dont have to go to them shes coming to me, and where gonna hit up a few reginal gatherings then after probation where both hitting the road to gether, but there will be no hitching, shes got a car, and she aready told me yesterday that iam her everything and she never wants to lose me, i must admit iam falling for her, she also saoid she wants to spend the rest of her life with me and many more lives to come (where pagan) we got so many plans, where gonna start a coven so if any of u live in the wi area and want to join pm me, iam sorry i cant beleave it shes all my dreams come true,
it may be sooner now, now its when ever she gets a car so with in a few weeks or by the end of january at the latest i cant wait.
