Do you think about your partner?

As the title states, I'm wondering if people primarily think about their partners (if in a committed relationship, that is) or if they use masturbation as a way to escape the bounds set by dating. Is it bad to think about other people or to watch porn? Does it affect the relationship? Does the relationship affect what you fantasize about?

 

Im a visual person. so if I do fall into porn, its usually just to trigger something Im doing with my partner already, or would like to do. I like outfits and stockings, panty play, feet play. I dont look up specific porn for that. just regular porn and pick it apart. I usually lose my interest in porn cause I have a wider imagination. I dont look at porn at all really while in a relationship. Its just wasting my energy to orgasm, so no I dont think its healthy if your having sex often. .,

If I do look at it now, its to edge or just to get on without breaking the nut open. its not always necessary when someone else fulfills you.. however they cant be around all the time., but not fair to cheat on them with images. you can make your own images togethert these days. this isnt the 1970s when a camcorder cost $1900.00.. ya can pick up a video camera @ walmart for 20bucks. and still have money for lube.. :2thumbsup:

 

My opinion is... to each his or her own. My wife and I and most of my previous girlfriends porn together. We find something we both can get into, and give each other all of that extra energy. I still have my private fantasies, which aren't so private as she knows who those women are, and vice versa. We are both secure in our relationship as we are best friends, so we are able to have fun with it. Watching porn together has enhanced our relationship.

 

yes, I think of my partner.. how can images override the feeling and emotions one has for a real person.

 

I watch his vids he sends me but if I dont have those, yes, its always him. Either something that we have already done or something Id like to try.

 

Never. I think my marriage may be in trouble. She is the furthest thing from my mind.


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Sometimes I think of either woman or teens I know or have seen in public or internet & try to imagine what they may look like nude or were nude when I saw them.
Sometimes thou it's just the pleasure of arousing myself & having an orgasm.

 

Only when I've been without them for a while or we just had some crazy fantastic sex and just thinking about it gets me going

 

My opinion... If in a relationship... When you masturbate you should only think of your partner... I think it is bad to think of other people, and porn why watch it... if you have someone to live it out with? I think it can affect a relationship if you are honest, if you hide it... then it won't. But that makes you a liar. And the relationship could affect what you fantasize about depending on, if you are getting enough of what you desire in some areas and lacking in others... Could make the urge to want others things heighten.

This is just my opinion though. Exactly how I would act, assuming I was in a relationship.