A friend of mine recently heard those famous words 'oops I'm sorry' during Sex and we was talking about this last night (well moaning about this) I know a few girls that have heard these famous words, I myself have heard them once before and was wondering what other people think of the situation? Can he accidentally slip/miss his target or do you think really his aim was perfect and was trying for a reaction? My own experience I believe it was an accidental because my partner also let out a yelp and seemed to be in discomfort himself but my friend is adamant that her partner just tried his luck. What are your opinions on the matter?
Depending on the angle and how they were going about it, I wouldn't count out the chance that it could happen. The real question is if he seems the sort that would just do it, and did he stop and pull back as soon as he realized his aim was off? I wouldn't figure the sort that would just do it and hope for the best would come to an immediate halt.
I've done it too by accident. But I have had male friends tell me they missed on propose so I'm sure there's some of both.
missed on propose? "now that i've gone in the wrong hole and you DIDNT rip my balls off, i'd like to propose marriage." lol so YOU missed on purpose and put a guy in your bum instead and he didnt know? thought I was the only one! I've had them kinda miss honestly when I was with an earlier boyfriend, and i didnt know how to bring up the subject of anal with him. I liked playing back there but I thought they'd think im weird or what, so this guy kinda missed and kept going so I adjusted position a bit and he missed again exactly on target, and, well, i told him to slow down and hold tight (he had his hand on it) and I relaxed and opened up and he slid right into my bum (missionary style). I dont think he ever knew I felt super naughty doing that cuz he didnt know, but hey, it was his fault!!
I think I read this right? So a partner you was with missed and Anal was something you wanted to try so managed to do Anal without him even knowing? I know what you mean by feeling 'super naughty' though.
yep. somehow i dont think he'd mind if he found out, in the end, but i wasnt sure. anyway, it was pretty awesome to get anal without him knowing lol. or maybe he did. he didnt let on. it was dark and we were both a bit drunk
He must have been very drunk not to have noticed. I'd notice. After all, if they both felt the same why would I have such a preference for anal sex?
He must of known? I don't know what it's like from a male perspective but from my experiences with Anal it has always been abit of a struggle to get it in there. And I have had one 'oops' experience and my partner knew straight away that he had hit the wrong hole so to speak.
Although a women who has anal sex regularly and is comfortable with the idea is almost as accessible in that regard as with the vagina, the orifice is always closed and thus always presents some slight resistance to penetration (That's also part of the fun )