Plan for sex or always spontaneous?

Does either turn you on, or turn you off if there is a plan for upcoming sex. Like you ask to get together with someone on wednesday. Do you like that? Or are you the type that would much more like it to just happen.....where the timing is right for both?

 

I like it planned and spontaneous. Both are a turn on! What about you?

 

I like both. Sometimes it seems like it has to be planned to happen but spontanaeity is great when it happens!

 

Planning can be easily upset by spontaneity regardless, sexual imagination is legitimate foreplay.

 

We have to plan around the kids, but spontaneous is better sex IMO.

 

Either works for me. Spontaneity is fun, but knowing that it's going to happen tends to put an extra spring in your step until said time. However, on the down side, things can come up, and your plans could end up going out the window, which can leave you frustrated.

Know what I mean?

 

I like both too. Spontaneous is preferred ! That is because when it comes together smoothly like that, it's extra fun, and is extra good. BUT BUT BUT....spontaneous can be far and few between so the next best thing is planned because the alternative would be not at all.

 

And yes, photodude....planning does make for exciting anticipation.

 

My wife and I do it both ways. WE agree on a day each week, for example, last week was Tuesday with pizza, beer, Kali Mist, and porn. This week it's a dinner date with Chinese food and movies. Next week, it'll be something else. And then there's always the unplanned a couple of times or more, also. Spontaneous is always great, but planning allows us to "date" again.

 

That is so super LivinAFantasy. For some reason I attract guys that won't do it that way.

 

We do both and both are always great with us! We plan when we are going to have a porn night together, because that always ends up being an all night affair. Then it also just happens out of blue anytime of the night or day. There is never a time with us that it isn't amazing.

 

Planned... so that both of you are physically and mentally prepared.

 

I'll take some of both.

 

I'd love to have a regularly planned time for getting freaky, but the gf, not so much. She's not too spontanious, either. Not good!

 

Both for us.

Planning adds to the anticipation. We will often text each other during the day syaing what we would like and how we are feeling. We can work each other up to a sexual frenzy sometimes like this.

 

You should always get approval from the Vatican first, which takes three weeks, so plan early

 

Talking of planning, we are planning a 'photo shoot' on Friday night

 

I checked with the pope and he said that my planning is permitted. So that's what I'm doing and it's coming up in a few weeks!!!

 

shit - Fridays must be special nights for u two huh?

Spontanaity is great - lovely to just rip the clothes off and ravish each other, but anticipation is maybe even better

I'll go for both

Simon :sunny:

 

Mostly it's spontaneous, however we plan for the kinky stuff :devil: