This now makes you popular in HIGH SCHOOL.

Ya and people in schools get discriminated against lots of things being poor, not being the smartest or having the coolest gadgets,wearing glasses the list goes on. It's a part of life, but if you sit there bitching about it instead of being strong and not letting it get ya down.

 

Do you know how hard it is to do that?
It's not me i am concerned about, its the children being bought up with people around them having such narrow minded views

 

Which exactly why you need to try even harder to not let it get ya, so your kids can look up to you and see it that it doesn't really matter.

Shit I know it's hard,

And as far as children being brought up with people and narrow minded views well really that can work on any level religion> some may say teaches them wrong values and beliefs Racisim> pretty self explanatory there the list goes on.

You can't bubble wrap the world. You need to teach your kids to hold their heads up high by leading as example. You can't let those people bother you.

 

I don't i am just saying.

I Will/DO teach my kids to not care, and respect people.. but other should do the same

 

I agree other people should teach their kids lots of things as well........ but doesn't always work like that.

 

i remember when GETTING that way was somewhat popular, when i was in high school in the 1960s.

 

Getting that way is still popular lol.. but unfortunately at the high school I went to there were multiple girls getting pregnant at once. Even after graduation (at least they made it until then), the girls you expected to get preg in high school and didn't were pregnant within two weeks after graduating, and the pregnant girls are all over my news feed like OMG PREGZ LOL <3 and it's really not all that funny. Even for those girls who don't post a pregnant pic every day like 'omg i'm 4 months 2 weeks and 4 days preg.. new pic tomorrow on 4 months 2 weeks and 5 days lol!!' post up pictures of their kids with no father in the picture.. I understand everyone wants their little flings and nights of fun but birth control is not 100% and if you aren't ready to accept 100% of the consequences, then you don't need to be having sex, period..

 

When I was in school, only two girls I knew got knocked up. And they both stayed in school and graduated. My neighbor's son told me that there are at least a few dozen girls that are baking a bun in the oven. He goes to the same high school I went to. WTF!?!? It's only been ten years since I graduated.

 

Some of the girls that I went to with graduated simply because their children were due after graduation. Some stuck it out with the support of families (because oddly enough, the ones who were mainly getting pregnant were either the economically low low class or the high class.. never really any middle class?) and some who got knocked up in 10th and 11th were not lucky enough to graduate

 

Whats that got to do with anything?

 

Both girls I knew were Upper Middle Class.

 

Because my personal thing is (and I already know that it is not very popular among others, unfortunately) is that sex should only be between you and someone you love (gender is no issue here, only love). And if you are only having sex with someone you love, and you just so happen to get pregnant, then we could assume that there is a father somewher ein the picture. I've only been in two relationships, and have only had sex with two men, I'm still on good moral ground with my first and have moved in with & am in a loving relationship with my second. It's not about women being a bad mom, if that's what you're thinking I mean, but it's about the fact that I personally believe that people should only have sex once love and a relationship have been established.. if that makes sense.

 

I went to a two-township high school which was generally seperated by classes, the township that I lived in was all economically low class, the part of the other township that touched mine was generally low to middle class and the far end of the other township was the upper class. The girls (and guys who knocked up these girls) were either the low class, near around where I grew up, or they were from the far side of the other town where their rich parents gave them money to do whatever they wanted and they had no responsibilities. One of them's dad was even the district court judge

 

gangbang?

 

I'd like to think we were that cool

 

People change, love and relationships end. The father of my child and I were in a loving relationship, had a baby, lived together, but having a child changes your life and we started arguing lots. When we split up, he stopped bothering seeing his child and moved in with a new girlfriend and her kids. Plus, that has nothing to do with age really, many older parents have these problems also.

 

That is a totally different story than a quick fuck that ends in high school pregnancy and the opposite of what I was referring to, lol. I know relationships end but my point is that there shouldn't ever be sex unless there is love and trust in the first place :sunny: