i noticed something with most my ex girls in the past.. after introducing a girl to anal in nice way, which usually leads her to get strong anal orgasm , then..the girl develop some kind of addiction to it.. so after some time, even after giving my girl a good long vaginal sex that i would be really satisfied with it, she would very often tells me she needs some anal to get her full sexual satisfaction.. this happened often with most my ex girls.. some of them even told me, she feels its not (Real sex) if she didnt have me in her butt when we make love.. did you have similar experiences ? ( the question is for girls and guys) ?
I wouldn't say addictive, though I would agree that the orgasms seem much more powerful. In our case anal sex has simply replaced vaginal sex, which we started having less and less of over time. From that perspective it is all in the mind.
All I can say is this: every anal virgin I fucked became an anal whore. If you know what you're doing, you will be a natural converter.
LOL I love your posts 'Backdoor Man' Well I've had Anal several times, recently infact but Im not addicted. It is very pleasurable though if done correctly, I think the addiction is more a male thing my partner is obsessed with my Ass
My wife enjoys anal sex so much that if we have a straight vaginal session I HAVE to rim her ass for her pussy to even get wet. I can spend 15 minutes licking her clit and when i try to stick it in she's barely moist, i stick my tongue in her ass and it's like Niagara falls. Personally i think she just likes analingus because she feels it's dirty and she knows how much her ass and butt hole turn me on. While we don't have anal sex every time we do it she does require anal stimulation of some sort to truly enjoy sex and to climax. Some women enjoy it more than others, i wouldn't say this is across the board.
Cazza, I'm glad you enjoy anal sex but too much of a good thing can be bad. Have you tried expressing to your partner that he's going in your ass too often? I enjoy anal very very much, truthfully more so than vaginal but i would never want to do it so much that my partner didn't like it or wanted a break. If your man is a good man he will feel the same way, even if he's an ass obsessed anal addict like myself. If he doesn't understand your butt needs a break, u may need a new man to give that ass to. There are plenty of guys who would be STOKED to even get anal every once in a while. Tell him he needs to spend more time in your vag, as a man who truly appreciates a nice ass i would never want to see it abused or over used. Even butt holes need their beauty sleep. :afro:
In another thread she said he has to wait about three months - he's hardly going to wear it out at that rate!