i don't feel pleasure when recieving oral

Ok so I've been sexually active since I was young, I've been there done that. But everytime a guy goes down on me I feel no pleasure. I feel what he's doing down there with his tongue suckin and lickin doing all that good stuff, but I don't get why I don't feel pleasure. I've had 4 guys do it and everytime im just not feelin it. I really want to though lol I wanna scream and wiggle around and twitch and shit but WTF IS WRONG WITH ME??? if he just uses his fingers it feels good, but not with their mouth. Hmmmm any idea why???

 

find people with teeth..

 

Lol um they do...

 

may be you just need more practice.....experiment with different speeds of licking/sucking....have you tried someone with whiskers?

 

I really don't think its the guys, cuz when they get to work they DO work down there lol they go all out and I feel them just goin at it different speeds and all but no pleasure. Its like whatever ugh....

 

You've not even specified if you're male or female.

 

Assuming your female, you have no feeling in your clitoris at all ? Or maybe the dudes are just inexperienced ?

 

Yes I am female lol and yeah I feel EVERYTHING, just no pleasure... with their fingers I feel pleasure but not oral ugh

 

If it feels good with fingers but nit their tongues, it may be a pressure problem. With some women I had to do it so soft I could lick a butter flies wings and not destroy them. Some women wanted it to be all face in an using my teeth. You just have to try different things until you find out what works for you.

 

You should experiment, by yourself, to discover what works for you. Then, convey that to the man.
Are you on SSRI antidepressants? That can contribute to making a person anorgasmic.

 

the antidepressant point is a good one..if you're on some medications, it can definitely dull your sexual appetite

 

They (the SSRIs) can make it difficult to achieve orgasm.
if Wellbutrin is added, it can counteract this side effect

 

it's either psychological or you have run across guys who don't know what the fuck their doing. The latter is quite common from what I hear. When you know how to eat pussy AND you fuck well, you will keep women wanting more and coming back. I have video of my technique but don't know if I can post it.

 

I think it's safe to say we all want to see your secret technique. Maybe you can upload it to a website more conducive to such material, and add some easily distinguishable tags so we can search for it?

 

I'll consider leaving a link. I don't really want to be linked back to the woman in the video though. That's my issue.

 

I'm a guy and I have a similar issue. Blow jobs feel good, of course, but they rarely bring me to orgasm. It would too long. I haven't found a woman who could make me cum. it sucks(no pun intended) because I would really love to complete the act and go all the way to orgasm, but It usually ends up with her asking me if I want to put it in her pussy.

 

Some women have a small or 'hidden' clitoris that the tongue wont reach. Try using a vibrator on the mons if he insists on licking. Maybe even an anal dildo to gain extra stimulation.

 

Oh, another technique I use is to lay my wife on her back but instead of licking her clit, I stick my tongue deep in her pussy and press my nose against her clit. I make circular motions with my head to manipulate the clit and try to reach her g spot with my tongue. She cums everytime.

 

Idk... i think i have a problem... lol and no im not on any medication, i mean i smoke weed but i dont think that has anything to do with it right????

 

No offense, but you do know the location of your own clitoris gsta6005?

And are the tougues of your partners hitting it for sure?

How pleasurable is normal finger masturbating on a scale from 1-10?

How pleasurable is sexual intercourse on a scale from 1-10? (assuming you've done that)

It's also possible there's a psychological reason behind this. Have you experienced any sexual trauma? Does the concept of oral sex, such as their mouth touching your private area make you cringe in anyway?


How old are you? (PM me the answer to this question) If you're underage...then perhaps that's the reason...you're still developing and shouldn't be doing things like this in the first place.