why do white guys tend to date darkskin black women?

I notice that when white guys tend to date black women, they are usually dark complected black women. why is that?

i am a darkskin black girl btw

 

I thought all black woman were dark

 

:drool5:..

 

No, there are many lightskinned black women too

 

Do you mean lighter black, like Milano ?

 

like beyonce, rihanna

 

I know what you mean, idk what it is about jungle dark that I find unattractive, but I mean why do black guys always get with fat white girls?

 

i dont notice a trend

 

jungle dark? wow that's pretty bigoted. I happen to be darkskin

 

i've never seen that. i don't think i've ever seen a black girl that was willing to date a white guy.

 

I am a black girl that is willing to date a white guy

 

yea whenever i pass black girls and do so much as to even glance in their general direction for whatever reason theyll be like WHAT THE FUCK are you starin at you white mother fucker.

 

hey baby.

 

i think that might just be something youve seen.. if theres chemistry then it happens.. i dont think theres a trend, just an occurance

 

I suggest people not over think such reasons for there being or not being attraction.

Times are changing and I think a majority of the time why there appears to be racial overtones to why attraction happens or doesn't has to do with chemistry and the general ease or unease one has with merging with the other person's culture.

And I think people tend to get with others with a similar familiarity to family structure, understanding hardships, and just meeting the family in general. (them being to forward in how they greet you, too shy, etc...)

But on skin color alone...I'm sorry I just don't think it's to that level of discrimination anymore when it comes to relationships.

 

i work with a white guy who happens to be married to a black women that also works with me.

the funny part is that if you take all the stereotypes about food and personality and where people like to live. you would think the guy was the black one and the girl was white.

 

I ASKED somebody about this, actually a few people....I see this all the time where I live...I mean...not so bad looking black guys with trashy fat ugly slob white women -- I just don't get it.

I see a lot of it --- it makes me think they just want somebody to shack up with and these females are desperate enough to do it.

I have reservations in ever dating a black guy because I think a lot of them just date any---thing.
And I'm far too fine for that nonsense.

as for what the OP said....around where I live, white guys date all kind of girls, mostly cute little skinny white girls.
In the city I see more mixed couples...but I haven't noticed the issue of darker skinned women being a preference....
but if that's the case, there are people who are just more attracted to someone because of their skin color...just like some people like certain eye and hair color...
I'm sure you can find someone who likes you for you and not just your skin color.

 

I don't know that this is universally true. I'm white and I do date black women and I have to admit that since my first adult relationship with a black woman, I have found myself increasingly attracted to them. I think a big part of this is that there was a large period of time, earlier in my life, when it seemed that black women were unattainable. I came by this belief somewhat honestly because of an experience I had with a neighborhood girl when I was thirteen - who point blank told me that her father would probably beat the shit out of me if he caught us even-so-much-as holding hands.

That's not to say that it's an attraction based on some kind of perceived forbidden fruit or novelty, but rather that I dismissed the possibility outright because it seemed unlikely or even impossible. Thankfully, I was approached by my first black girlfriend as an adult, who obliterated the notion(s) for me that #1 black women generally don't find white men attractive. #2 black women in general would not date white men, because their family/society would prohibit them from even considering the possibility.

I'm not saying that #1 or #2 have been completely eradicated and overcome in the world today, but I certainly think that it's less a "fact" of life than I previously believed or perceived to be true.

On a purely sexual level, darker skin in any degree of "darkness" on any race, appeals to me for reason's I can't really explain - It just looks beautiful to me. I suppose to some, the darker the better, but I personally cannot fixate on one physical characteristic to the point of overlooking others. I would never approach a girl just because she had beautiful dark skin.

I've actually thought a lot about this, maybe too much. Have I developed some kind of subconsiouce dislike/distrust of women of my own race? But the fact is, I still do find white women physically attractive. And I still find women of other races attractive, but I have to admit that my eyes seem drawn to dark skin. Maybe it's because my own complexion resembles something like a cave fish and I'm repulsed by it.

 

Nicely said Jam!

I'm a girl and I like black women. I've never been involved with one. They are like illusive prizes, I would love to be with a dark skinned black woman. Or light skinned. It doesn't matter to me!

 

I don't think this is true. At least not in my area.