Am I unnattractive?

there is nothing more attractive than a nice personality. if you really have to go online and ask people for their opinion on whether or not youre pretty then obviously its not the looks you should work on but the confidence.. i used to hide my personality because i was so self conscious about how big my boobs were so i wore baggy clothes for like 5 months straight but now i know guys go for a clean crisp girl who wears confidence

take it from me, dont let yourself be judged because your quite literally asking for the negativity.. be happy with who you are, not who you look like.

 

you are fine...just relax!:2thumbsup:

 

Lol, yeah, I think she's asking for the exact opposite of that.

 

I think you are very attractive....

 

Well, you're not suppose to ask random internet people if they think you are attractive.
And to answer your question, you are not unnattractive, you look okay.
Also, lose the attitude.

 

you'd be more attractive if you were also positive about yourself. yes, hard to do but people quickly forget attitude is more sexy (or a sexy ruiner) than anything else.

 

Ah, the old "OP vaguely fishes for compliments, gets panties bunched when they aren't exactly how she imagined" thread....

 

My favourite was "Alright I admit it, I'm ugly, and that's where you come in". Spirited tyke.

 

I was hoping people would finally catch on that she's fishing for compliments. I'm reading the first few pages of this thread and I'm like...wtf?! These people are going along with what she's saying.

I thoroughly enjoy bringing down people who fish for compliments. But, by the looks of this girl, she looks extremely young, so I figured I'd hold off in fear of instilling suicidal tendencies

 

Not, exactly.

Sorry to use the daddy issues card. Previously used to getting more attention from father figures for being pretty and sweet, at 18 thats dropped off and now its about getting attention from guys her own age which is more about jiggling the boobies and the bam bam. Sheltered life, over protective family, she has no idea how to do that.

The 'I dont deserve to have sex with guys my own age' line gives that away. And the dreads, you do dreads if you want to look more cool than Next Top Model.

But pictures gone now and so probably has she

 

I understand how the daddy issues work...I probably should have gone through something similar myself, but my defense mechanism toward everything in life is to stop caring...so at that point in my life, I didn't care what people thought.

But, what you say does make sense since she clearly explains that she got and is keeping the dreads because she's getting attention.

I guess I don't understand women's need to fish for compliments...and saying things like she said just sets me off. We are just feeding her what she needs to hear...I'd rather feed her the truth, but she didn't give me the chance

didn't get to ruin someone's day today hahaha

 

I simply asked a question that I didn't know the answer to... I do NOT care what people think, I just cannot take being completley alone anymore, from people my own age in general... and go ahead tell me more maybe it will be enough to finally finish myself off

 

Plenty of people told you you were cute, so what is the problem exactly? I retract my statement saying you were cute, because your ugly attitude ruins it.

 

please don't talk like that. maybe you just need to connect with the right people

you might want to visit www.suicideforum.com or www.befrienders.org for a suicide hotline, if that's the way you are really feeling

a little therapy might help you.

looks like you took down your pic before I could comment. seems like all the guys liked it, and the cat claws came out from the ladies...

you must be a cutie

 

Lots of people find themselves (or have found themselves at some point in their lives) isolated from other people, whether it's by choice or otherwise. I know what it's like, and I have known other people who do, too, so it's hard to sympathize with just one person going through something like this. There is a lot of loneliness in this world. Your situation is nothing unique. You're young, so perhaps a good place to start would be with not feeling so sorry for yourself. Based on the attitude you have presented thus far, that could be part of the problem right there. You are angry and bitter, and I know from personal experience that is a sure way to drive people away from you.

 

But you DO care what people think!! Otherwise you wouldn't have made this thread, much less made an account on this website just to ask that question.

You need to grow up.

 

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder..if you're feeling about yourself why give a flying rats ass about what ppl think

 

Anytime I see a thread (or a post) from a female claiming to be unattractive/ugly, who then posts a pic (or pics) of themselves, it's always very obviously, a vague attempt at fishing for compliments. Anyone (especially a female) who genuinely thought they were ugly and had low self esteem due to that, wouldn't post pics of themselves.

And I dunno about anyone else here, but I've yet to see such a thread or post from someone whose claims about their looks are actually correct. lol I'd never call anyone "ugly" anyway purely based on their looks alone, but I know that a lot of people do...

 

yes, I think that they are fishing for compliments, but I think that's ok though.

 

you took off your picture or something so i dont know. besides there's personality as well. i think it's maybe you live in a crappy town or something