I like it and prefer it. I like starting out slow, taking my time, but I like things to escalate to where he loses control and can't help himself from grabbing the back of my head --- I like it as a help sometimes too -- I like being guided to the tempo he prefers or sometimes the roughness of being forced down on it -- it's a big turn on for me.
when i was standing and my wife was sucking my penis (she was squatting), she liked me to hold and push her head towards me. i remember the first time, i had never done it and she took my hand, put it on the back of her head and pushed my hand to push her head further down on my penis. it was quite a surprise which i enjoyed. as i figure there was a couple things she liked about me pushing her head down on me when she sucked my penis. first she felt that i was really enjoying what she was doing, getting lost in the pleasure of her eating me. second, she enjoyed me making her suck my penis. i asked her once which was her favorite way to start oral sex, her eating me: -me sticking my penis in her mouth -pushing her head down and onto my penis -her putting my penis in her mouth she liked the second one the most, when i would push her head down and her mouth onto my penis.
I think you should ask yourself if you would like it? Personally I stop giving head if a guy grabs my head and starts pumping my face. I think it is very rude and it makes my face and mouth hurt.
But most of the things women do during sex are not enjoyable or pleasant for them, like anal and swallowing loads. Should guys have to do those things to before they do it to a girl?
I am another gay guy adding an opinion. If the guy I am sucking is under 7" I totally love him to put his hands on my head and take control. I really like if he goes even further and face-fucks me from beginning to end. I love the feeling of being his slave.
I completely agree with this one...it's such a turn on to guide a women...either by pushing her head down so I go deeper, or by holding her head steady and slowly guiding my dick back and forth in her mouth. It's like having sex with her mouth...so hot...
although we both, as usual, enjoyed different tempos, different approaches, different positions, on more than one occasion she expressed interest, "treat my mouth like you do my vagina"
For me it would depend on exactly what was going on, each circumstance is different. If it only bugged me a little I wouldn't mention it. To much over analyzing can screw up sex for me so I really want to pick my battles when it comes to giving negative feedback.
I definitely don't mind my guy controlling my head AFTER a little while. I need time (a few minutes) to get into it and relax my muscles and reflexes. Then, if he wants, he can take control.