dirty photos

I know, but I want to try before I call it quits.

 

thanks.I think previous poster are right. I'm more worried about my bf than the actual photos :-(

 

Thanks x

I'm actually ok with the content he has posted except for his degrading tone, it's just like, why can't we post togther?

 

Oh, you optimist, you.

He isn't proud of you, "look at my wonderful girlfriend". He is showing you off as his toy, his "dirty bitch", his "slut", his ****, to do with and treat as he wishes.

If you are going to hang on, hoping to save the relationship, I don't know what to say. It seems like the relationship is past the point of no return.

My advice would be starting now no posting, no picture taking.
He immediately refers to you in a respectful manner. At all times.
In public, defiantly, but if you play domination/humiliation games in private, those should stop as well. The games are leaking to the outside of your bedroom.

These should be deal breakers, if he slips, "Goodbye, don't call me ever!"

If you want to disregard this advice, that's your call. But, if you do that, please remember that when the time comes that he offers you money (especially if the money came from another person), "girlfriend" is not a accurate description of sexual activity in exchange for money.

 

He does have nude pictures of me with my face showing, but I don't think he has shared them.[/QUOTE]

I don't think he's shared them... Yet is the key word. To me he has broken the trust.

Everybody has a camera phone or digital camera millions of women will be dealing with this issue for now on the genie is out of the bottle. Gone are the days of getting film developed.

I have a teen daughter I'll have to have this talk with her about thus issue too not take pictures of her who who or let a boy take nude pics of her because you don't know what he's gonna do with them once you break up.

My friends son in high school took pics of his 15 year old girlfriend nude sent it to his friend ell the pics spread through the school like wildfire. A teacher eventually saw it and hell descended on all.
Nude pice are fun but never know what's gonnq happen to them when things fall apart

 

It sounds like you two still have something together. Unlike MikeE I don't think a hard line ultimatum is a good way to go - that kind of thing just creates conflict and resentment. Have you sat him down and explained to him how much this hurts you? It sounds to me like he gets a kick out of dominating and degrading you. There's not necessarily anything wrong with that - as long as you are getting off on it too and he knows where the line is. Either way, it sounds like he's thinking with his genitals right now and might not realise how its making you feel.

I'd sit him down and have a good talk. Communicate clearly to him why you're unhappy with this and let him know exactly what your preferences and limits are and how you want to be treated in private and online. If he's a decent guy he'll make good with you, if he ignores you and carries on he's clearly a douche and you're better off realising that now than later.

If you do sort things out I'd recommend getting more personally involved in his online activities - insist that only you upload any photos, that you both have the accounts log on details and that you reply to comments together as a couple - it might even be a turn on

 

I wanna do this with my gf too, but she wears full faces so

 

I think its cool that you let him take and post the pics. However the degrading part would be a big concern. However Im sure we could give better advice if we could see the pics

 

My boyfriend wants to do that too.
I'm ok with it but NO FACE.

 

Thanks for all the advice xx

I decided not to give him an ultimatum and cause a conflict. Instead I gave him a choice - either keep posting pics on your own and fantasising about me being a slut...or we post together and have me as your slut for real ;*

Guess which he chose? Lol, well he deleted the pics he posted without me, and I kept my word...

I'm sure we will be back posting as a couple again soon x

 

I think it sounds like it is getting out of hand. I think it's totally cool that you guys post them together and look at comments, but make sure that it stays that way. I would definitely NOT show your face, and I would agree on what to caption the photos. You should have control over this thing since it's your body. I mean, as a guy, I can see how he'd think it's hot, but it's unfair if he's running away with it and abusing it.

 

:hurray: Wow, hot! He's a lucky guy to have you.

Now, where did you say we could find these photos again? :drool5:

 

Well sorry guys I'm not leaving him. I love him and I actually like fulfilling his fantasies.

But he is a dirty old bugger. Kinda cute lol.

We have started a photo blog on tumblr if anyone is interested.

 

yeah, I've been checking them out. Infact, I went back to that tumblr today. Very very sexy pics

 

Good for you, go for it and enjoy yourself

I got a PM from you (although I didn't get a notification so I only just found out about it), but for some reason I can't message you or reply to it in any way. Probably something to do with not having enough posts. I can't find your tumblr page but if you message me again with a link I should get it and I'd love to take a look

 

Ditto

 

Well, glad you guys worked it out!

 

Hey there, still not letting me post privately (that goes for those others who have messaged me - I'm not just ignoring you). Just wanted to say love the pics and I hope you keep posting them, you are one sexy lady.

You should try persuading him to join you for some action shots :devil:

 

Oh we have some action shots planned for the blog ;*