Woman Orgasm advice needed.

Hi everyone,

I am a little confused about women's orgasms and would love some opinions.

This may be answered best by other women, as they would know more about the feeling of the different orgasms that women have, but men are welcome to join in.

Okay, so, women have a few different kinds of orgasms, so I've read, but my main question here just involve 2, the Clitoral orgasm and the G spot orgasm.

How do you know the difference between the two?

Do they both feel different?

I would like as much detail as possible on the two if anyone here can describe it, because I don't know if I've had a G spot orgasm or not.

Also, is it possible to have a clitoral and a Gspot one at the same time?

I can tell you what I feel when I do orgasm if that helps.

Obviously there is the build up, and then everything starts to tighten up just before the climax, my heart starts pumping really fast, my lips (on my face) get cold and then my clit and vagina start contracting and pumping over and over again for about a minute, and then I'm completely exhausted for a bit after.

 

There's no one-scenario fits all.

Yes it's possible to have a clitoral and g-spot orgasm at the same time.

Can all women do it? No.

And the strength of an orgasm can vary because of multiple factors, like level of horniness, who your partner(s) are and how they work with you, the physical positions and types of stimulation you like best, age, diet, how physically fit you are, and hormone levels which is related to stress.

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Now I am not a female, but I can tell you that women and girls have told me that clitoral orgasms feel different from g-spot orgasms.

And I don't know if other females here agree, but a girlfriend of mine said her g-spot orgasms felt more "smooth inward, and a full body experience" while she described clitoral orgasms as "outwardly intense in tension in the pelvic vaginal area with a release that spread through the body".

But she also said both send waves of pleasure through the body, just in their own way.

And I think to a point words only do an orgasm so much justice with description alone.

 

Thank you for your reply.
Can you tell me one more thing, do the girls also squirt or gush when they have the G Spot Orgasm?

 

I'd really like some more opinions on this, I can't believe no one else is responding, is that because no one really knows?

I know, it's very complex!

 

My girlfriend tells me that a clitoral orgasm focuses on the clitoris, and spreads from there. It is a short burst of pleasure, followed by another and another as you stimulate your clitoris further.

Vaginal or G Spot orgasms take longer to achieve, and are best done with help from a partner. Once it happens, there are waves of pleasure coming from within your vagina, much like a man's ejaculation. The difference from a man's however, is that once it happens, you can do another a short time after that. My girlfriend has had 30+ in one sitting. A guy has to wait a while before doing it gain.

Let me know if you want G Spot orgasm training.

--The G Spot Master

 

As far as the do woman squirt or gush from a G spot orgasm there are so many different stories about it out there and so many people that know nothing about squirting spouting off like they do. From experience with my lady she can and does squirt often from both clit or g spot stimulation. It doesn't matter if I am eating her out or fucking her she squirts all over the place all the time. I have read many times how it can only happen from g spot, but we know first hand that it is not true for her. Now I am just waiting for the retards out there to pipe in with how squirting is just pee which it is absolutaly not.

 

I agree g spot orgasm are smoother than clit. Gspot: for me it get stimulated with every position we do .but more with certain ones so I guess it's more about finding the right position to really get an orgasm. I have a couple of positions I like but when we have sex we go wild so I find a new one all the time.so one I can think of is being sideways with my back to him on an angle hahaha I can't explain it sorry another is one leg up on my chest and the other down those are some . NOW as for clit it's more exposed so much easier to get it to and it's quicker but the affect stays there and with every movement it makes it more intense.
Can you get both of course and it's great!!!!!! Either he can finger you while playing with your clit or while your having sex and you feel him hitting the right spot play with yourself
I hope I helped Evn though it's confusing

 

the difference is where the orgasm is felt.. for me i can only orgasm clitoral but if i do that multiple times then i have a g spot orgasm. the difference is g spot is more intense and your body is pulsing and contracting faster and harder

 

Well thanks for all the replies. Sounds like I haven't hand one then((

I really have no idea how to make it happen, and obviously, neither does my boyfriend.

So, that being said, now I would like some advice on how to make it happen. I mean we have tried the finger thing, come here motion, and it didn't work, it felt good though, so can someone please give me some pointers, I really want to have a Gspot O....

 

Wow! 30 in one sitting! You must really rock her world. Yes, advice please, training definately needed here!

 

This is one of those sexual issues adventures there is no roadmap general directions for.

I agree with the others who have responded to this thread topic.

But I want to stress a girl should not let the quest for a g-spot orgasm make her upset if she can't have one nor should the guy be blamed.

Most women can't have a g-spot orgasm, because their body is different probably in the nerve sensation and in brain chemistry than women who can.

Other factors are stress and mood and or related to hormone fluctuations.

 

Well, I understand what your saying, but I just want to experience it and I'm not convinced that it won't happen, I just wanted to know if there were many ways to do it, or just one way, or if you need other things leading up to it to help relax etc.

 

Well now this is interesting. So if I have several clitoral orgasms, it may turn into a Gspot one?
How long do you Wait in between clit orgasms before trying for another?
It's quite tickly down there after the first one, I find I have to wait it out a bit.

 

Best advice I can give is let it go....

As silly as it sounds you are trying too hard, sex is supposed to be fun ans messy. If you can have an Clit O so enjoy that for now.

Gspot will come later. But if you just relax a little and not focus on achieving that super orgasm (ei; 30 in a row) then things will happen on their own.

 

^I agree. It's kind of like TRYING to fall asleep, the more you make an effort to try to sleep, the harder it comes.

During sex or even masturbation dirty thoughts, and the physical sensations and emotions caused by the physical sensation is all one needs to think about. (rubbing, hugging, thrusting, kissing, and recognizing what feels good what doesn't is ALL you need to worry about)

Shame that makes one self-conscious, really has no place in sex at all, none at all.

 

Ok, I will try not to try anymore. It's will be hard not to think about it though.
Thanks everyone. I guess when guys say they can make girls orgasm and brag that they are Gspot masters, they probably aren't, they are just all talk.

 

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Haha it's funny you mentioned that because that's exactly the case a lot of the time.

Lots of women young and old admit faking orgasms and this causes a lot of guys to think they are experts in bed...but its all a lie...and so they pass on bad or even harmful sexual stimulation techniques.

Proof of this harm is that women get urinary tract infections after sex a lot! The urethra getting irritated because of the friction.

Now there is a lot of truth to the come hither motion to stimulate the g-spot but I think the problems are twofold.

1. Physiology
2. Stress
3. Hormones and mental horiness.

To a point a women's perceived perception of a sex act affects her results. A lot of her enjoyment or lack thereof is partly imagination hence why fantasys work to enhance orgasm.

 

Personally I find the g-spot orgasm much less satisfying, as someone else says, you're ready to start again after less than a minute, so you don't really get that all over satiated feeling that you do with a clit orgasm. Having said that though,, they are pretty nice and the feeling of ejaculating is also really good if you can relax about making a mess and not worry about it being pee - which it's not. Yes you can have both together and you can also ejaculate from a clit orgasm too - for me, I tend to do that after a really long build-up so lots of foreplay or sometimes it only happens with the 2nd or 3rd orgasm due to the increase in intensity.

As a lesbian (well bi now but gay for 17 years, lol) I make women have g-spot orgasms by fucking them with my hand facing up and bending my fingers round so that when I pull down, my hand is pulling behind their pubic bone, this is also the best way to get a woman to ejaculate as you kind of pump it out of her - it also seems to help if you hold your other hand over the top, above her pubic bone on the outside. My straight sex experience is pretty much nil at the moment but maybe if your boyfriend tried this then he could get a better idea of how he can position himself whilst fucking you? Good luck!

 

Thank you for replying, this was very informative and helpful. So I'm just guessing that this isn't something I can achieve by myself, judging by the finger thing and pulling down etc.

If you have any other little tips on squirting, I would really like to hear it.
Thank you.

 

I only know of one type of orgasm and its called orgasm.

Multiple orgasm is just a continuation of the same orgasm.

I think there are levels of intensity of an orgasm, whereby the orgasm is much more powerful.

There are many symptoms of a orgasm and one of them is spasmodic involuntary vaginal barrel contractions.

That symptom above all else I would say is the most obvious symptom of a real orgasm.

Another symptom is extreme profuse sweating (I say sweating but its not caused by physical exertions so much as some strange physiological release of water from your skin cells).

The women can slip up and down on the guys torso its that slippery.

Other symptoms are very high heart beat above 200 per minute.

I've read elevated tachycardia but not sure because I cannot remember if she was or wasn't.

Also for the guy its a really weird out of body experience which sounds unbelievable but that is how it was.