My Girlfriend's Ass

I have a girlfriend, and we have never tried it. What annoys me is.. I don't know whether she would love it or hate it. In a way I feel as though I know I could make her love it. I'd like to know her thoughts on the matter. If I did know her thoughts, it would even be as much as to determine how I'd act around her. I would be too embarrassed to try anal with her, (in spite of the incredible urges I get) because the last thing I would want her to think about when looking down the toilet at shit, is me! If she loved it, my fear would be that it would only be a matter of time before she'd realize that I too have an asshole, & this would expose an awkward reality in our relationship. And ya, I also desire to stick my tongue in there.

But For now, we remain innocent, which I wouldn't want to spoil, and I like the way she looks upon me as clean/pure. I don't know if I could sodomize her like that. I mean her brother has sort of given me the benefit of the doubt anyway.

But I remember once, when I was a teenager & 2 of my pals & I were watching a porno, and suddenly he started taking the woman anally..she was loving it. None of us said a word because and there was this incredible awkwardness in the room. Then to avoid saying what we were all thinking, one of the lads cracked a joke! I don't actually know why I'd like to do women in the ass so much anyway, what do you people think... let me know

BTW, I live in Ireland so bare in mind that we mightn't be so promiscuous!!!

 

Don't be smart.. you know what I mean. As I was told before, either contribute or GTFO

 

i'm really not sure what you're getting at with this whole post.

what does her brother have to do with anything?

of course the woman in the porno was pretending to enjoy it. the only exception would be if she was asian, since asian porn is all about girls pretending to be in excruciating pain.

somebody approve the attachment, dammit!

 

It's just I wouldn't want anyone doing that to my younger sister. Her brother is kind of friends with me u see!!

 

well you don't want to talk specifics about your sex life with your girlfriend's brother obviously, but i'm sure he knows you're doing shit with her. just don't tell him it's in the butt.

 

You know exactly what I'm getting at Undies

 

Errrrr, you were watching porn with 2 of your mates and you were comfortable up until the girl in the vid got poked in the rear?

 

don't confuse porn wit real life relationships

 

Every guy I've ever known bar one has desperately wanted to fuck me up the ass. No idea why but all guys do. Like most things in life, some people love it and some hate it and a lot are in between.

My advice is never discuss it with your girlfriend. Its not the sort of thing you ask a woman. This is how my boyfriend got me into it.

When he was going down on me he started tentatively playing with my asshole. Then he started doing it when we were fucking. Every time he went down on me or fucked me he went a bit further until he was putting his finger in my asshole. Then he graduated to rubbing my asshole with his cock. He'd stop fucking me and rub his cock up and down my **** and then tentatively rub my asshole with it.

He did this gradual build up over several months until he finally tried to actually put it in my ass. Then he only put the head of his cock in and quickly put it back in my ****. It was probably about 6 months from when I first noticed him touching my asshole until we actually did full on anal sex.

When we did do it, it just seemed like a natural progression. If he had simply asked me if I wanted to would ahve said no for sure and I'd probably not be doing it now. Hahaha.

Great communication isn't always about talking to each other. Sometimes it knowing when NOT to talk. To communicate with gestures and feelings.

 

This raises a poignant question for all men here: Just before the tip of your cock presses into her asshole, ask yourself, How much money have I spent to get to this point?

For some, the answer is well into the thousands. My buddy spent tens of thousands already, got married with her, they have a baby boy together, and yet she still won't let him fuck her in the ass. Right from day one when he met her, he told me, "She has a hot ass and I'd love to fuck it." This conversation was six years ago (2006). He confided in me recently that after being married for approaching five years and having a baby boy together, he realized that he made a mistake. All he wanted to do was fuck her in the ass, and even after getting married and starting a family she still won't let him in her ass. The shame is on him for sticking with her and not ditching her earlier.

Guys, quit wasting your time and get to the point. Hit the bars because you will find anal whores there, because you will ultimately shell out far less in the long term.

 

A man marries a woman, has a child with her, stays with her for 5 years just because he wants to fuck her up the ass? Poignant indeed!

I should add that although I was madly in love with this guy at the time and eager to please I was also very inexperienced and skittish about sex. So probably more experienced and self confident anal virgins wouldn't take so long to get used to the idea.

Nowdays, for me, trust is the big issue. I won't let a guy fuck me up the ass unless I trust him and I know that he is genuinely concerned with makng sex as good for me as it is for him. This would be especially true for any woman who has had a bad anal experience.

This may also be of interest to Wanna Be Ass Bandits - my four very close girlfriends (make that three - ones a lesbo) all do anal sex but only with guys that are "special". So maybe first thing is to make her feel special and to do everything to make yourself "special" to her.

I think generally speaking you've got a much better chance of getting a woman to do all those nasty, kinky little things you've always wanted to do if she really, REALLY likes you and thinks you are "special". :love:

 

Sorry I have to laugh. But please don't bring your ill sister into this AT ALL!!! I know what you mean. When your having sex enjoy it! don't think of what is going to happen just let your body move to the passion or excitement that is happening. Let your hands and fingers explore her body caress her ass when your fucking,making love or whatever and slowly move your fingers there first just massage around her whole and slowly make your way in when your finger is in wiggle gently and see what she does if she moves or says something just say "sorry it's just your ass is so nice" LOL KEEP TRYING it shouldnt take long if you do it right! then just ask her. About her wanting to explore you don't just tell her NO I get tempted of exploring my husband because my hands go wild but he reminds me to stay away and I do. I'm going to stop this is too long. I hope it helps

 

Are the orgasms you have in your sphincter?

 

Looks like this group finally has a bigger douche bag than Back Door Man.

 

It's a strange world we live in...

 

How rude, that was a fair question??

 

Perceptual occlusion.

 

I can't believe it took SIX months??? Obviously you didn't take 6 months b4 u realised what he was up to?? You must have known from the outset what he was planning on.. so what did you make of it the whole time?? What made you think you wouldn't like it before hand. Could u not account for the fact that if u were relaxed that u might be more likely to enjoy it??

 

Some prude bitches will never give in. Tell that to my buddy, who wasted six fucking years trying to fuck a girl in the ass. I just got off the phone with him and again asked the periodic question and his most recent update: no anal yet. The shame is on him for not having the balls to leave his wife. After all, it is not easy to leave a wife a baby boy. It would never be an issue for me because I would never marry the girl in the first place.