My girlfriend is always depressed

So, I have this girlfriend, I am completely in love with her. I tell her that I am and I think I show it. I treat her great, tell her I love her and I serve at her feet.

So, here is the thing every night (almost) she becomes very depressed, never knows why. At least she says.

I am always horny and it seems like it always happens when I start getting close.

I try to talk to her. I ask her questions. I am lost. I know this is short I am just so bummed and lost about this.

Any advise? Has anyone dealt with this?

 

whats the money situation in yours and her life?

 

1. She has a mood disorder

2. She's suffering from sexual trauma in her life

3. Your girlfriend is possibly an alien abductee, combine this on #2


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None of these suggestions are a joke, and I'm expecting you'll handle this seriously and maturely and NOT in a way of

"Well I believe that YOU believe you were abducted".

^we only say this because of a stigma around the topic but it should be taken seriously as factual phenomena.

 

How long have you been together?
Do her parents like you?
How are you different from her past bf's? Maybe you are to obsessed with her are you in her life 24/7? Do you go out with your guyfriends still? To many variables to factor in before giving logical adice. Well besides the obvious maybe she misses her home planet. Or maybe she is falling out of love with you. You really need to have a serious heart to heart talk with her tell her how you feel. Harden up a little and stop being whipped man.

 

Finally, another person with night depressions!
I can't really help you or give any advice but I can barely think of a night when I wasn't anxious or depressed. It just happens and it's pretty awful.
Obviously though, my situation has nothing to do with not wanting to have sex with you :-/

 

Perhaps the depression is psychological and has to do with being scared of the dark?

That phobia has got a stigma for adults who still struggle with it because it's seen as a kids problem you should've overcome by adulthood, but I think it's possible.