I like this topic. For most people there are three types: Making Love: Usually put time and effort into this, usually consists of fair amount of foreplay and setting the mood. You may have the desire to lie together for a while after. Sexual Intimacy: What people accomplish when they want to get together and have a good time, but it's not love making. Sex can be spontaneous, it can be whatever you want, but it has emotional quality. You usually have fun with foreplay and maybe try new things, trying both to get the most physical pleasure you can. You may want to cuddle a little after, or what some tv, but you spend the time before and after. Fucking: Largely, and this goes for both men and women, having sex to get off, for relief, usually what a quicky is, although fucking can often take a while, the emotion is not there, limited intimacy like kissing, touching, usually fast tempo, you also tend to leave to go somewhere after instead of staying, etc.
I love LOVE making love but you're right, it take time and effort i just can't muster all the time. I would have what you call sexual intimacy most of the time.
Kinda looks like my 3 level system... anyway, I like lots of sexual intimacy, epic love making every now and then (once a week usually) and very rarely, just a fuck.
I find the difference in music, since I 99% of the time have sex to music, the different style the different music. With love making it'll usually be slower, with sex faster, and with fucking I love 80s rock...mmmmm can't beat def leppard.
Making Love: is what my husband and I do,its loving and tender. Sexual Intimacy is also what I do with my husband but not Necessary to make love Fucking: is what we do when we have a threesome,I fuck other men
I have to say sexual intimacy is what I mostly experience, and making love, but the latter is rarer for me to encounter in general.
A bit of all three for us I guess! Although we do like fucking at times neither one of us wants it to be quicky. When something is that good we want it to last a long time. Besides it is rare for us to have sex without foreplay, because I just crave eating pussy far to much to skip that part.
making love ---- with my husband sexual intinacy -- with my lover on our own fucking---------- in a threesome with my husband and another man thats real fucking, love Susan
I like all of the above; lovemaking is like a feast, sexual intimacy is like a good meal, and fucking is like a drive-thru cheeseburger.
