How to get over someone

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by r0llinstoned, Sep 26, 2012.

  1. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    Never shit where you eat.

    You just need time. You will get over her, but it's going to be harder because you have to see her at work.
     
  2. i_was_in_shroom_land

    i_was_in_shroom_land Shroomier than you!

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    drinks..

    or find someone hotter than her..
     
  3. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    purp buy my plane ticket to colorado :D

    yea i got called into work today actually and had a bit of a scuffle with her.

    fuck it!!! yolo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  4. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    dude i dont have money, i'll buy you some beers, that's about all i can afford lol
     
  5. LastingDays

    LastingDays Member

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    I have struggling a few days ago when my girlfriend of 2 years broke it off with me. She did in less than five minutes and I just had to leave.

    The next week I couldn't sleep at all because I was kept awake at night with memories of our happy times, and I asked myself the question "WHY!!" over and over.

    Eventually I was able to convince her to sit down and have a conversation with me. It had so more closure than a "Im breaking up with you." and I can tell you Its so much easier to move on now.

    Now we both had good intentions which is why I believe we could have a clean break up, that I could accept and move on.

    That might not be in your case, because some women are bitchs and tear your heart out like sleeping with your best friend, in that case I just fill my heart with hate for that person. (makes not loving them much easier.)

    Then again I'm fucking 18 years old, so I might not know jack squat about what I'm trying to tell you.
     
  6. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    This Would Be My Advice...:)



    Cheers Glen.
     
  7. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    At my work right now we have people come in and walk around and try to get people to sign up for some stuff for their housing if they need it fixed or watever, set up an appointment. but thats not the point, the girl doing it right now is reallly pretty. I first met her liiiiike 2 days ago. And yesterday she struck up a couple conversations with me for quite some time, when she really should have been working though. Cuz she has to get a certain amount. She is like 25 though. IDk i might be looking to far into this, se prolly has a boyfreiend, for fucks sake!!
    ima try and see if she does and maybe ask her on date if im not to much of a pussy :)
     
  8. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    Ouchies, its hard when you have to see your ex on a regular basis.

    From my experience, the only way to really get over someone is to just let yourself really experience the stages of grief. If you feel sad, give yourself time to feel sad. If you feel angry, let yourself get fucking pissed off for a few days.

    And then once you've wallowed in your emotions for a while, put on your big girl panties and start living again.

    One thing about rebounds....they'll take your mind off of her temporarily, but i've found that rebounds just make you feel shittier in the long run.
     
  9. PurpByThePound

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    Go for the 25 year old. I've been getting a lot of attention from older ladies (late 20s to 30s)

    Nothin wrong with that.
     
  10. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    She seems really nice and has slammin titties :3
     
  11. Tyrsonswood

    Tyrsonswood Senior Moment Lifetime Supporter

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    When I was about your age I went on a two year drinking binge after breaking up with this girl... After two years not only had I forgotten about the girl but I couldn't remember why I had started drinking in the first place.


    I don't recomend this method... especially if you drive a car.



    .
     
  12. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    The only thing that can get you over someone is time.

    It took me almost 2 years to get over my ex fiance. It was a horrid 2 years and I still think about/dream about him. Hell, I just had a dream about him last night-although it was weird.

    You'll get over her...just try to keep your distance at all times from her. Its shitty you work together-it'll probably take longer since you see her pretty regularly.
     
  13. PurpleOrange

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    Get rid of any shit thats hers or reminds you of her delete her off your facebook so u dont have to look at what shes always posting, and keep yourself bussy. Hang with some good friends, drink, meet new girls.
     
  14. lode

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    It'll get better my man. Just take a little time and mourn about it, go out and get drunk and party with a bunch of strangers, and in a little while you'll meet someone new. Lots of other fish in the barrel.
     
  15. Spectacles

    Spectacles My life is a tapestry Lifetime Supporter

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    Why don't you consider this a lesson learned. Don't date people who work in the same place you do. It is never really a good idea.
     
  16. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    And history repeats itself. :D
     
  17. Spectacles

    Spectacles My life is a tapestry Lifetime Supporter

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    Exactly!
     
  18. jimmyjoe1

    jimmyjoe1 toker Lifetime Supporter

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    :)try telling yourself she isn't worth the shit your going trough:(
     
  19. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    You never really get over someone :(

    I can still vividly remember my first girlfriend as if it were yesterday. we were both 14 years old and so in love (or at least we though so) it was sick.

    I still think about her occasionally and still get that same feeling in my lower stomach. I hope that doesn’t make me a pedophile picturing how beautiful she looked naked and how her body felt against mine. :eek:

    Hotwater
     
  20. i_was_in_shroom_land

    i_was_in_shroom_land Shroomier than you!

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    lol jesus .. hotwater..
     
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