I'm a Virgin.. Get me outa here!!

I'm a 22 year old virgin and am gradually growing more desperate to get my rocks off. I haven't had a gf of late and have been taking the view that the first time has to be special(in a relationship), so that it would be love and sex combined; and that from there after I could feel free to have one night stands. Recently, I've decided that I can't afford to be taking myself so seriously & that I'll be okay losing my virginity as a one night stand. I figure if I do this, that I'll have more confidence and that getting laid thereafter might come more naturally.

So I ask, what's the best way to get laid, should it be with someone in my social circle, at a nite club or elsehow??

It's hard in a nite club because I'm a stranger to the girls & they're usually aware that I'm alone. In nite clubs, now and then I score by just dancing up to a girl and it works but, how do you get them back to a hotel(or where ever) to screw them. Are there girls out there that are willing to have sex with strangers?? Nite clubs seem are where I'm zoning in on at the moment as the work place isn't an option in my case. How does one seduce women. I'd definitely like to hear a few stories of how you guys out there got laid

 

you either have to be an expert at their game, or incredibly lucky.

hookers are always willing.

 

You're much better off just being friendly, upbeat, and open to meeting women, talking to them, finding out what they're all about and what their interests are (you know, treating them like people, not objects for getting you off) and then see if they would be interested. And don't be crude, most women don't respond to that (although there are some that do, which is why YOU HAVE TO TALK TO THEM AND FIND OUT WHAT INTERESTS THEM).

Also, a glass of wine does wonders.

 

Get cracking lads. I'm back after my month ban. Gee, it felt long. I am now reformed!

 

find the weirdest girl out of your group of friends, and try coming onto to her. Don't be a creeper.. do it in a nice way.


The weird girls are always the kinkiest in bed.. and what better way to lose your virginity?

 

Nice but assertive. Girls like that.

When I was in a similar situation, I stuck to treat girls well, but playfully.

I tried the nice guy route and discovered I was coming off as desperate so yeah.

In truth 22 is young being a virgin then isn't that big a deal.

Girls do respect you for holding out though so if that's what you really want don't settle for a one night stand.

 

Step one sit on your hand. Step two slap yourself with your other hand. Do you feel that knowledge trickling back to your brain? Good now stop asking us what to do and go out and talk to some ladies.

 

22 may be young but not for the members of this site! lol

As long as I successfully seduce a hot girl that's good enough for me. I can't afford to wait for... well who knows how long. Girls will presume that if I didn't get laid that its because I wasn't cool enough. Not to mention the fact that if I lose it, I will be more confident around beautiful girls

 

which girls?