Penis size causing a problem....

Ok, so ill start this off that im 16 nearly 17 now, and i am having a little problem so to speak with my penis size.
so best way of saying it is,... its the opposite of what most problems guys have in this regard.


My ex-gf every time when we had sex the whole thing could not fit in, she was wincing the whole time, nearly crying no matter how gentle i went, when it was almost all in maybe another half an inch to go i would hit her cervix and she would wince and exclaim that she was in pain, it really bothered me cause i didnt wanna hurt her, i mean its supposed to be pleasurable for both people right.


after a while of course i got to pace it just right for her and she loved it, ALOT but she said it was still a fine line between pain and pleasure and that if i went to far it just hurt like hell, i mean we had to stop once because of it and that really hurt me, not my ego of course that felt at the top of the world but the fact that i couldn't satisfy her without causing her immense pain was agony.


And since then of course a few girls have seen it, both erect and flaccid and i have got alot of shocked looks and a few comments, so i knew by that point it wasnt just her.


I am now in a relationship with a beautiful girl from canada and im from australia and she has even said the idea of sex with me both pleases and scares her, but yeah she said more on the scary side..... she told me to do the "toilet paper roll" test (its like where you see if your girth is the same size as the roll) and it didnt even come close to fitting in it, and i measured it for her and that just made her even more scared, going from the measuring tape from girth comming in at 5.8" arround and from the base bone up the top to the tip of the head at 7.2"


my question is, is there something i can do to make sure that when we do have sex that im not going to cause her the pain i caused my ex. i think i know the answer that there is nothing that can be done but im interested.


any ideas or tips will be helpful i guess,
thanks guys

 

Lube would help a lot. Take it slow as well. As a virgin I can't really say much, but from everything I have read, she will get accustomed to it over time. Just be patient. Also, be sure to give her some oral sex beforehand. Let her have her pleasure first. Not only will it please her, it will also add some natural lubrication, and the adrenalin and endorphins that will be coursing through her body will help drown out the pain. However, if you bring her to orgasm, note that she might be very sensitive for a while. So, maybe make her good and aroused, but avoid pushing her over the edge.

 

well naturally i can tell you my current gf gets VERY wet, like dripping every time we have skype cam sex, being like so far apart and all, so i dont think the lube would be all that necessary, but ill keep oral sex in mind , i know she can have like 4 orgasms before she begins to get tired, but thats just using a little toy she has, with me it may be a different story though :/, i was also thinking like the cowgirl position allowing her to control the depth. what do you think

 

I'm sure most of the guys here are playing the world's smallest violin for you.

Just be careful with it, and learn how to use it. Nobody gets pleasure from being reamed with a hoe handle.

 

If she's a virgin or only had sex a few times it can be hard to penetrate her.
She's probably nervous and clenching, she may not even know she's doing it.
I'm married and my whole life there have been times where I just couldn't loosen up.
I suggest more foreplay. Learn to finger her the right way, that will get her engine running!

 

well when i was with my ex, i did find that fingering did help alot, especially hitting the gspot with the come here motion and making her squirt once or twice sure did help a bit, but she was definatly still in pain :/, she was a virgin the first time, and she took it sooo slow, i mean 15 mins just to get inside her and then we had to stop when we hit her cervix, this was with her ontop of me controlling it to her depth of course but still.

we had it like 25 times after that like 3 times a week and it never got any easier on her despite what we tried.

 

Just get her all heated up and use some lube too. Chicks love big dicks :2thumbsup:

 

:willy_nilly:

 

don't be silly, every guy on the internet has that problem.

 

Well, I don't know what to tell you, other than to just take it slow, amp up the foreplay, and use lube.

 

7.2" is not too big (mine is that size too), and I have always been able to "bottom out" with my female partners. Your problem is your width, which may be too large for your girlfriend's vagina. Try using other more slick lubricants, like Kama Sutra oil, which may allow you to enter easier. She may also not be that experienced sexually, and her vagina has not bee stretched from use.

 

I was going to say the same thing. I'm 5.6 around and a tad over 9 in length and I would never say that it's been a "problem". I mean, I can't take a really small chick, put her ankles behind her ears and just jackhammer the bitch, but as far as regular stroking, it's never been a problem.

 

I wouldn't even say it's a case of stretching from use, but rather they're probably tensing their muscles due to nerves.

But then again I'm not 5 inches in girth. (Is this a problem?)

 

Make sue she is very very horny. (You'd be surprised what women are willing to tolerate sexually with racing hormones) Lube always helps (water based lube) and you could always try to warm her up with your fingers.

Try different positions, not just you on top.. but her riding you, spooning or maybe her bent over.

As far as sticking it in, inch by inch. Enter one inch, pull out, go in again but enter two inches, pull out…. and continue.

Hope this helps.

 

Well first off you both need to be in the same area to really be needing help if she is in Canada and your in Australia the size will never be your problem. The lube and general foreplay is great advice. They do have desensitizing compounds out there. I used a lil coke on a girls vg a few times and let me tell you she was numb and down to pound. Sure maybe she walked kinda funny for a day or two but she came back for more.
"note this post is purely for entertainment and or light educational experiences. i do not condone or promote underage drug use or do i?"

 

lmao you put cocaine on a girls vagina?

that's kind of hot.

 

Hell ya man it was a total night of rage sex man. we was both numb as fuk and the sex was out of this world... She was a freak thou. Something about it turned her into a total fuck machine. She couldnt get enough man. Oh the good ole days. I dont do that stuff anymore though must be getting old.

 

haha how old are ya? and where are you from?

I'm not a rapist. just curious.

 

i'm so big that's the only way to make it work.