So, now I feel like a loser. Last night, my bf asked me to go down on him, which I was happy to do. While I was going down on him, I noticed he had trouble staying hard and, eventually, it got to the point where it was obvious to the both of us that he was not gonna get off. I've gone down on him before and never had much trouble bringing him to orgasm. As far as I know, he hasn't been stressed out about anything. Also, he'd had a couple beers earlier that night but two beers has never been enough to pose a problem before. I don't know if it matters, but he's ten years older than me. I'm really embarrassed by this. I know I'm not the best at giving head, but I thought I was pretty good at it. Now, I'm wondering if I need to improve my technique? I'm really bummed cause he's able to give me amazing multiple orgasms and I, apparently, am losing my touch. Any help would be appreciated.
If you have been successful before, I would say that this is just one of those things that happens to every guy at some point. It's not you.
My guess is he just had one of those moments that it isn't going to happen. I'm sure if you went and gave him head this morning he'd pop right up.
This happens to me too. Well, not the getting soft part, he doesn't have a problem with that. I admit I'm not good at giving head, I'm getting better though. I've just never really like to do it. It doesn't surprise me if he won't cum while I'm down. At that point we just start having sex.
I guess he could've been more tired than he realized. Well, like they say- if at first you don't succeed, try, try again... heh. Thanks all for responding!
Better yet=if at first you don't succed-keep on suckin' 'till you get some seed. I would say not to worry. It happens.
He was having a hard time fantasizing about whoever he thinks about while you blow him... Or... he just masturbated and thought he could go again, but couldn't. Either way, not your fault... unless you really do suck. :afro:
Still trying to figure out my issue of not being able to orgasm whilst receiving a blowjob. There has only been 2 to ever get me to orgasm that way....(including my current gf) I can get me to orgasm and she gives mind blowingly awesome head, but the end result has (except 1 time)been the same. Don't know what was different the 1 time..... Any help on this issue would be greatly appreciated....as she is becoming more and more frustrated that she isn't able to make me orgasm orally.....and I don't want her to get so frustrated that she gives up.....
it makes no sense my wife give a mind blowing bj and it almost seems like she and make me cum at will. so I guess I have no help for you, sorry
Does he know for sure he can cum in your mouth? I had that question recently, and it makes me wonder how much men sometimes hold back if they think they can't. Guys?
I'm 32....I know its ok...My girl loves giving me oral...I think she just likes the control factor. I don't believe I should be having these kinds of issues at 32 though. She's getting really frustrated that im not cumming though....HELP!!!
OP how long have you been with him/what's your... uh, "success rate"? Sometimes shit like this happens. I have yet to be able to get off from a BJ... it feels great but I can just tell every time that I won't finish. I wonder if it is in any way related to circumcision... I am cut, and a lot of times it's hard for me to even finish at all even with sex, with nothing to do with how "good" it feels or how turned on I am. Is your partner cut?
