ok, theres this guy that i like SO MUCH, and i've been pretty good friends with him for a couple years and he used to go out with my best friend..hes so cute and he puts up a happy front but i know hes sad inside i really want to go out with him but damn me, because im so f-ing shy and i keep getting mixed signals from him. sometimes mostly when im drunk and were with our close group of friends i feel like we're flirting or whatever..but then at school he seems to ignore me or he seems mad and he never talks to me on msn or anything. Also hes always really flirty round other girls that we arent really tight with..some are really stupid girls that are tools too.. I dont know what to do, and i dont even know if theres anything to be done..just looking for any advice or comments if there out there
Hey First you should ask yourself is why you want to date this guy so badly if he treats you like that. Is it maybe out of pity (since you know his sad side and feel for him)? That may not be the best way, plus he probably knows that and maybe that's why he's keeping out of your way because he doesn't need any pity or sympathy (esp. if he's in a group where males should be tough and all). Just leave it be. At least for now. For every other reason.. try talking to him about it.. ask him what kind of girls he likes and perhaps what he finds attractive in them.. see if you make a chance.. if he's flirty with you then totally go for it. Just try being a good friend.. you can't force love.
about the drunk thing maybe he likes you but not that much or likes you but doesn't want to admit to it because when you're drunk you are usaully more truthful you just exaggerate the truth alot of the time
