Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and a bit unsure about weather I am bi sexual or maybe a lesbian. I am a virgin although I have had sexual experiences with guys. There was one occasion when me and a girl I was friends with kissed ( we were very young, not so sure why it occurred ). That was the only time anything happened with a girl though. I used to wander about my sexuality when I was 13-14 but Iv not really thought a lot of it since then up to now. I'm very fussy with guys and the last one was a bad experience with someone I didn't really like. I just find it extremely hard to find guys I like and am comfortable with. I don't really think I could be a lesbian because I look at some guys and find them attractive etc but I think I'm very likely bi. I was thinking about it and I think that there are deffo girls I know who if they were to come on to me I wouldn't resist. And I definately look at girls and find them attractive. I don't know, I'm very confused :S anyone feel similar? Xx
I'm 17 too, i use to like loads of guys when i was a kid then (and girls too but didnt accept it/realise it at the time) then when i was 13 started accepting that i like girls too. Then about a year ago I went off guys completely but can still find them cute, but i wouldnt go further than that with one. I call myself a lesbian when people ask becauss i could date and have sex with a girl but with a guy its only their faces i like lol I think if you want to be sure do a percentage, like 90 percent into girls then youre a lesbian, any less would be bi. Personally I only label myself when people ask, otherwise I just dont know
Thanks for replying I'm just not sure ... At the moment I kinda feel like I'd be with either, but I'm hugely feeling the need to be with someone right now boy or girl. I guess really I think love is love and weather it's with a girl or a guy shouldn't matter I deffo put love before sex ... I'm just unsure, I think I want to be with a girl :S xxx
I think what I really like about girls is that they aren't just after a quick shag like boys are .. Or a lot on boys are :S xxx
Hello. I'm 18, and I'm the same way. Im pretty sure that im a lesbian, but ive been with a guy before because my sister set us up. It lasted a week, and didnt work out. I just feel extremely awkward being with a guy. And when my other chick-friends see hot guys and make a fuss, I couldn't care less ya know....lol. Well, I guess its just the ladies that do it for me Good luck with your predicament. xo - Becca
Yep sounds pretty much like me! Think I've kinda established that I'm bi I mean like there's girls I fancy and guys I fancy (a few) but right now I reay feel like I want to be with a girl, it's just where to find girls who feel the same :S xxxx
Yeah for real though. I find it hard to meet other bi/lesbian ladies though :/ Its almost like there's none in existence around where I live
