you should be happy you still look like a kid @ 20.. dont grow up so fast. there is nothing you are missing but your youth. enjoy it.
The idea you look feminine is nonsense. We are all being brainwashed by the media, pornography etc into accepting only one look as 'masculine'. However, from the perspective of attracting women, apart from how you approach them, I'll suggest something that may sound strange but I assure you will work. Have your eyelashed dies a darger colour and see what happens. This can be done in gradual stages so that people you know don't get a shock. Anyhow, what have you got to loose?
Bro, I am a male, not a female. I hear ya, and it was a honest question, and you threw yourself out there for critique. I can respect that, and being 20yr old you may listen a lil' bit better. I will offer a few things, and you can take it or leave it. You dont appear to be gay but more phrail, and breakable. Females for the most part like confindence IMO, and a bit of class and style. Unless you like a gutter bitch? Seems like you would pass on one if caught by her. Kudos on that bro! Just perspective though...... 1st - Join a gym bro w/ tanning bed, as you are really pale. 2nd- Got grocery store and buy lost of meat and potatoes LOTS! 3rd- Go to a Barber shop that is ran by Puerto Ricans or Brothers, no exceptions, and they will respect you for coming in. Aks for a 'Bald Fade' or 'Skin Fade'. You will look Military now, and the shorter hair will give your body a bigger appearence. 4th-Walk around like you have a 12" penis. Not cocky or arrogant, but proud, and never dorky. Follow this off bat, and things will change for you bro! I may not be the Love Dr., but I promise you wont go with out!
Thanks for the advice. I would never in my life step into a tanning bed. I actually like having pale skin...Though I should get out in the sun a little more probably... I almost want to move to the UK so I can have sex with girls that have really pale skin I think white skin is beautiful..It's something that 'Bros' in America have no taste for. I also will pass on shaving my head...I might cut it shorter...But contrary to what most people think in today's world, I feel longer hair Is Strength. Besides...My hair isn't even long. I might follow your advice and buy some potatoes! But I love potatoes and already eat Potatoes and Cabbage quite frequently. It is quite impossible for me to become fat though ive already tried...I eat like a fucking elephant anyways. Also I don't need to walk around pretending to have a big cock, because I actually DO have a big cock...lol :afro: I feel like alot of guys (mainly in America) over compensate for having a small penis by getting jacked on steroids and driving around in ridiculously large Trucks..Don't get me wrong, im sure a lot of Girls are attracted to that...
You're cute... just young. IMO, you'll really come into your own as you age, and women will find you very attractive. It may be small consolation now, but men who are very manly and attractive to women at a young age often have a very short window of being "hot", while men who take longer to come into their own generally age very well.
Oh good lord, WHATEVER you do, don't do this! I don't know what part of the country you live in, but you look and sound like a type... pale, creative, pretty... that is in hot demand in the Pacific NW. Move to Portland or Seattle and you'll be swimming in girls.
Thanks :biggrin: And Mayor Salt, I feel like I will look very young for quite a while.. I realize most women are attracted to the Brawny, Strong and Hairy man...Perhaps I will look more the part once I grow my beard? Are any of you ladies attracted to beards? :devil:
Hi, as a very good looking, smart and sexy woman - I completely disagree with practically everything that is suggested right here, ESPECIALLY the tanning bed and haircut. I have worked with "those" types of men, and yes they do have women who like them, but women such as myself really do not. So if your natural style is how you look in the photos, then keep it because some women prefer that look - Just look at Kate Moss, for example. However I really do agree with the walking bit. Not sure about the 12 inch penis part - the guys who exaggerate their walk like that are pretty transparent. But I can completely become attracted to a guy or lose attraction to him, according on how he walks. The worst thing to do is slouch / slump and shuffle. Stand up and walk with an air of confidence. And as for your question - yes, you are actually quite good looking. Not that it REALLY matters, women go for attitude much MUCH more than looks. You don't have to be outgoing to be confident..Just have to have things in your life that inspire you and you know you are good at - women love men with a passion..it is probably our biggest turn on. HTH!
I should also say that my "type" is the cute nerd with a passion. Dorky can actually be cute to babes like me (My last 2 boyfriends have been computer programmers - I love them! Well, if they are entrepreneurial that is)