Ignore me after drunk kiss/flirt/dance/sedcution?

Hmm He's kind of manipulative and party guy
Im 18 and he's 23 (soon 24)
We are classmate ..
He use to look at me alot, tease me, talk to me, testing me etc, asking what I think about him, I should get a boyfriend, texting me..

Then on a school party here on friday, I got drunk, started to dance with him, kissing him, touching each other, seduction.. but then after party was done he texted me and called me saying I should go home wit him (sex) and I ignored it... then the next day he texted me asking "Are you very happy for me since u wanted to dance? even though it was more than a dance.. you were horny :| ;D" i just said ''I just said you are okay and I liked the dance.'' buuut since Monday he don't look at me, no teasing, no talking, no text messages, nothing, but if I ask something random then he looks at me and answers, but other than that? Nope... and we didn't have sex..
I miss all the teasing, talk, look and text message that he gave me all the time..


Why do he do this???? Tell me ..
Don't tell me 'he's a creep for being with a younger girl, he could go to jail, and is a pedophile' seriously someone told me that and I couldn't take it seriously..

 

strong first post

 

How can he be your classmates?
Anyhoo, it seems as if he does not want to waste any more time on you.
He seems to be after one thing - the moment went. He moved on. You should.

 

She's 18, he's in his twenties...I don't think her friends are accurate to say he's a pedo. He is/was obviously abusive and was all about the sex regardless though. She needs to get out.

And I assume their both in college, and have at least one class together, so that's what I think she means by, they are classmates.

 

Well he tried to fuck ya and that didn't work so kinda at a awkward stale-mate eh? It's only natural. He probably feels if he still stuck around you would just continue to hold that power over him and he's already gotten as close as he could to fucking you.

You should've fucked him. Or at least have the balls to initiate friendly banter with the kid now that you know each other better. But you won't. You'll convince yourself you can't. You'll just sit back and be a girl. And this relationship will soon go to hell.

 

yep. Life's like that when yr 18.

 

This is terrible, terrible advice Starlight. If his only reason for hanging with you is to get some, he's not worth your time.

I don't have a lot of patience for the 'wimmin has sex power over teh Men' brand misogyny.

 

Yeah I don't either, she owes nothing to him. And I don't see how she even played any games with him, she was totally straight with her and all misinterpretations were inferences made on the guy's part.

If anything that guy could've had a loyal friend in her, and instead he shuts her down because in the end he wants a sexual favor, or nothing at all.

Imho, the OP is coping with this realization.

 

i dont see what the harm would be if you just blew the dude?

 

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Nailed it.

 

Me neither.

Perhaps more thoughtless than abusive.

I don't know how the school system works in her country. She does not sound as if she is from either the UK or the US. Perhaps somewhere in Eastern Europe.

 

Well i guessed college, because the only situation I'm used to where someone with a 5 year age gap can be classmates with someone else....is in college.

 

he wanted to bang a freshman

that's it

sorry

 

Fair enough

 

Actually that...makes complete sense.

 

That was a terrible advice....

 

May not want to know why or ever find out why... time to move on to better dances

 

He doesn't like you anymore. Get over it.

 

I was at school and it's my birthday today so I got lots of attention from the class.. He wrote on my facebook wall wishing happy birthday but didn't said it face to face... Later that day I just spent time with two guys, flirting and teasing with them, and having fun watching funny videos.. I had fun today..I talked to one of them, then this guy suddenly involves in asking "What are you talking about??" .. and we both were in group conversation.. this time after 3 weeks he looked at me when he talks to us in group.. and when I ask my class something, then he answers as the first one.. he even looked down, touching his cheek, looking at me... then i look back at him.. he looks away.. hmm.. he is starting to look at me again.. after I had fun with other people in my class.. I also told him ''i like how you wrote happy birthday but u didnt said it face to face"
him "Oh.. i did it cuz then i may forgot to say it later."
"what are you talking about i was in front of you when u wrote it."
He didn't knew what to say lol... what do you think he feels now after long time?