I looked through my boyfriend's phone...need advice

UMMMMM maybe because i was freaking out when i made this thread..yes now i realize it was totally pointless. o well get over over it. i did.

 

i doubt it. its a pretty fucking serious relationship and we've been through a lot. Plus i am most likely carring his child. but thats a whole nother thread..

 

asshole. why is it so hard for some people to realize accidents happen...??

 

And the Pill's 100%?

nvm - jumping to conclusions w/o having Facts...

 

DDDDDD-Damn!!!

To answer your question: Hormones and responsibilty don't mix no matter how old you are.

I do think we're all coming down a little hard on her.
I understand that we all came into this thinking that she was in serious need of our advice and when we found out what the whole story was we felt jilted...
Kind of like the boy who cried wolf.

People do make mistakes...

 

Its Not Wrong To Worry...but Then Again Its Not Right To Snoop..i Mena I Too Ahve Gone Through Some Of My Boyfriends Things Liek His Myspace..but Then I Evenutally Came To Turst Him And I Knwo That If He Ever Did Anything He Would Tell Me....and If You Bf Isnt Telling You The Truth All The Time..tell Him To Get Lost Cuz U Dont Need That Shit!

 

Hi. Well, I feel if your boyfriend is texting his ex is a problem; especially if he has lied to you about it. Remember, once a liar always a liar. A few of the people who have responded above were kinda rude and not taking into consideration your feelings about the situation.

I have been in your shoes. My exboyfriend said he didnt text his ex at all. but one day he went somewhere, left his phone in my car after I just dropped him off at his house, it went off, and low and behold, guess who it was? His "ex". She asked, "Are we on for this evening?" They were meeting behind my back. This truly broke my trust. We see each other a few times through the week because we both attend different colleges(community colleges), but we're close in travel time.

Anyway, I decided to take him his phone, with the message still on as he would open his phone. He was surprised to see me back in the drive way. He came out of hte house all happy and all. I said, "Oh, guess what?" As he was hugging me once again. Uh.. your ex just texted u.. better answer it.. since u are all meeting tonight. Needless to say, his hug released, he was shocked... and didnt know what to say. He just told me they were going to meet for a talk. I just looked at him and stared saying, "you could have asked or mentioned this to me.. after a year of dating, u think he would tell me. I just got into my car.. and waved. That was the last I saw him. I will or wouldnt even trust him ever again.

Im 20 and Im looking for somoene who will treat me like I should be treated . I always did everything for him. Helped him in all things, money, food, etc. I am just sad how it ended. Now, I really am paying attention to what I want out of a guy ...their goals, their aspirations, and someone who is a bit more mature.

I wish u luck. Just dont believe them when they say .."We're just friends." They had a relationship prior, so no doubt there's something still there..

Good luck.:daisy:

 

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yeah, right,,

 

dont waist your emotional time on someone who makes you an option rather than a priority

 

dude.. this threads like a billion years old.. lol

 

Username: dislexic



dislexic, you will be pleased to know:

God only knows how things are now, though.

 

no, no, no, no we do not need to know that!

 

I think you might be jumping to conclusions. I hope things work out ok.
Don't forget to reply and let us all know how this turns out x



:leaving:

 

Let's see...He flirts with an ex, and you have no respect for his privacy.

You sound perfect for each other.

 

I'm totally sure that 6 years later, this problem still matters.