Woman Orgasm advice needed.

My ex is the only one who has gotten me to squirt puddles. Now, I just get slimy wet. It may be an age thing, I'm not sure but my ex was a 8 1/2 incher. I still have orgasms through all sex (oral, vaginal, anal).

Lately, I've been getting more clitoral orgasms after bf has his. When he is in shrinking mode, his penis must be throbbing so much it strokes me just hard enough to get me to another orgasm.

Also, while my ex's size helped me "get there", I believe total relaxation played a big part as well.

 

Are you one of those rare girls that has a spot near the back of their vagina that is like a 2nd G-spot and it's very close upwards just above the mouth of the cervix?

 

It's possible. I've never looked into it.

 

I have several places.

 

Clarify please.

What I think your saying: You have several spots within your vaginal canal that behave like g-spots in terms of pleasure sensitivity? (clit is external, so I'm not counting that)

Does the penis size (length and girth) of your partner directly influence how much pleasure you can get from those spots during intercourse assuming the man is skilled and knows how to use it?

 

She had come from an exceedingly repressive family. (Oh, how they hated me! But then I hadn't married them.)

I used to be a bit of a hermit, so, at first, we didn't even have a regular bed, only a foam mat. We lived on the first floor in an apartment building and one morning, maybe ten in the morning, after a couple of hours of sex the fellow who lived in the basement apartment began banging a broom handle on his ceiling because he hated hearing us.

My point?, we had made love day and night for weeks. We went to Bermuda for a week and when we came back, well the real honeymoon began. And with me sitting on a chair my wonder wife would knee and do what women have done to men for thousands of years. And this has never stopped.

Nor did what I did to her. She preferred vaginal intercourse and very quickly she began coming to climax when I came inside her; Love seemed to cure her problems. We were deeply in love, we still are. For years we slept in the same bed (now I have a health issue that require a separate bed for me, not my wife's fault,) but when we slept together and I happened to wake up first, I noticed that our breathing was synced, that she had synced her breathing to mine. To check I would hold my breath and after a few moments she would shift to my new rhythm.

My wife and I never had kids, and for years, well, this girl who had only been on one date before she met me (she had been institutionalized by her parents; My opinion, without cause,) grew into a woman who enjoyed pleasure and enjoyed giving it.

Women, it seems, can obtain real sexual enjoyment from giving their man enjoyment.

With men, sex is pretty simple. Fun!, but simple. Women are vastly more complex, and a wise and loving husband can give his wife cause to want to come to bed year after year.

For years her way of telling me she loved me was to say that sometimes she couldn't tell her where she ended and I began -- she was trying to tell me that she loved me that much. (Which isn't what a modern woman would say!, I know.)

And sex?, well, we never got into anal. But everything else we explored, and also each other. So go to bed with someone you actually love, someone you can't get enough of, someone you want to be with for the rest of your life, someone who loves you, too.

The rest will happen. Be forgiving, loving, kind, gentle and responsive to your mate.

 

I want this. But the reality is that it's easier said than done, meeting the right match. You seem to have been lucky to find it and your wise enough to do everything in your power to not let it go, but yet not view your situation as a form of ownership of one another.

Also you seem to be on the same page about having kids or not having kids. That takes a few stressors off your particular situation.