Jealousy

I made myself look like such an IDIOT at work this morning. I got jealous over a girl which I am not even going out with (or not yet anyway, though now I have probably blown my chances) talking with another guy. Apparently I was so pissed off that I couldn't hide my anger, and she said to me as we were leaving work, "Wow, you're really mad." I don't know how she could tell, but I am assuming it was my body language. At first she was under the impression it's because my relief was 20 minutes late (which was initially my reason for being pissed off), but a few minutes later I asked her in a voice that probably sounded slightly agitated, "So do you know (name redacted) or something?" That had to have given it away.

It sucks to be so neurotic and literally SUCK at life.

Oh well. Maybe I just need some sleep.

Anyway, I am sure this girl thinks I am a psychopath now.

Again... oh well.

Why am I posting this shit in here?

 

It's a cliche, but it will seem better after some sleep.

 

Bitches love psychotic men .. gives them a sense of excitement. as long you dont over do it.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0dVykd2i6g"]jealous guy - john lennon - YouTube

 

Fuck it, dude. Let's go bowling.

 

i've been there. although i can usually hide it unless i'm drunk.

 

:iagree:

 

I doubt it's as bad as you think...after some sleep, it probably won't be as bad. Maybe she'll be happy to see that you care...

 

Maybe she noticed you were mad, but didn't realize it involved her. Not to make you feel any worse, but that's probably one of the things that puts me off the most. Everyone is a little insecure and gets jealous sometimes, but if someone just gets jealous having a normal conversation with a guy and I'm not even dating that person, that kinda scares me off, it makes me think you're a little too possessive. Some women love that shit, my coworker Carla says how she loves having a boyfriend that other guys are scared to even look at her and guy's that get jealous. I think that's crazy. I'm also kind of naturally flirtatious. I can't help it or I guess what gets interpreted as flirting.

Anyways, relax and try to chill out or ask her out already. I read that other thread, the breakfast idea sounded nice. Take her to a nice place for brunch.

 

It could get worse even if you DO get to go out with her. In fact it's pretty much guaranteed to do so. The green eyed monster is a bad mo-decker and I have seen her in action when I was younger. It is one of the most destructive of human emotions and it took time for me to beat that bitch. Even tho your political diatribes bother me,I wish you well as a fellow human being and I hope you seek some kind of guidance/help to force that bitch out of your life. Big prob,IMO.

 

I probably could have used another 2-3 hrs.

 

Thanks for your opinion, Aura.

Things is, the guy she was talking to is a player (or is it "playa") and a very good looking black guy (I mean that in the least homo way possible), and from what I could tell by a single glance, she liked him. It just really made by blood boil since I was already in a bit of a mood to begin with.

But anyway, you're right.

 

oh man....this is bad


no disrespect....but you are not good looking enough to pull this kind of shit off....

and i mean that in the most homosexual way possible....

you are not a looker....dont make things harder than they already must be

 

lol.... thanks.

 

Beauty is only skin deep. It's what's on the inside that counts.

 

Your hand relief was 20 mins late?

 

i think he is pointing out that the ''inside'' is a little messed up....i thought that was clear


and...i am an expert on getting by without good looks....so save me the touchy feely crap about what is on the inside...

 

Maybe she finds the guy attractive an is turned off by his "player" attitude. I would be.

 

Sucks....I hate that feeling. It has confused me into thinking my feelings are "deep" for the person in whom I'm jealous about. What I have found out is that I'm possessive. It's a terrible trait in me. I have to work hard on that for my future. I don't want to put myself or anyone else through it.

ETA....I just made that all about myself. Sorry. She might be a little flattered. It depends on how psycho you looked or sounded.

 

Oh, jealousy, yes, I've had problems with that monster. Today I'd just love for someone to come take my ball and chain off my hands, I'd probably pay good money for it to happen. Nah, not really, I'd probably scratch the eyes out of anybody that got between me and my man.... who knows, It's a mystery! But in my world everyone tends to run on the jealous side.

I sympathize. I'd pray for you if I believed in anything to pray to.