This is a hard subject for me to discuss, and btw I hope im in the rite forum) Anyways between my husband I we have a total of 8 children, that includes 2 grandkids. So i ended up preggo with one( again) this tym, after a lot of bad luck and a bad situation, we descided to give our baby for adoption, thinking it was the best thing for everyone. We have come up to the city and yes they have takin care of us so far, but when i met with the cousoler, I saw that she plays a lot of games. Tells us one thing and this its another. Anyways, the whole point of us making this life changing descion is to get back on our feet, which in the end, after the bby is born, they are basically throwing us out on our and we are rite back to square one. My feelings are the agency is making lots of money on my child and giving us the leftovers. By no means amI making this a money hungry greedy issue! But making a decsion like this is hard enough, and we are not getting what we need to make us ok them what is the point? zAny why should they be they make the $$ that we to better ourselves. that was the point in the first place. Does anyone know anything about adoptions? and What do the rest of yu think?
What country are you in? And how far out is the birth? I would find a different agency if possible. It's still your child, and you shouldn't go through anything if you don't think you'll be at peace with it, or if you don't trust the agency. Just because they're paying for your care doesn't mean you "owe" them your baby. I don't personally trust private adoption agencies, precisely because of what you mentioned--making a buck off of people put in a very vulnerable position. My husband and I plan to adopt, but we're going through the foster care system.
