We've had sex before but I'm nervous about staying in a hotel with my boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend have an active sex life, and it's never been a problem since he lives in a house with housemates, so we've never had anything stopping us really. I've slept over at his place and stayed in his room many times before as well.

We're going on holiday next month and for some reason I'm feeling nervous about being in a hotel room alone with him.

Why do you think I could be nervous?

 

It's probably the change in setting.

 

You secretly suspect that he's a cross-dressing serial killer that thinks he's a soul-eating demoness and needs to extract it by carving off bits of your more sensuous flesh and consuming them all while wearing your back as a skin; as you watch, bleeding to death.

PS, you're correct.

 

I have no idea! If you are already having sex and are in a relationship then what the hell could be the problem? Do you not trust him?

 

i'll never forget the last time i was alone in a hotel...

 

Probably the different setting, where you will "truly" be alone with him...relax, let things flow...

 

could be you're carrying a lot of family baggage ... that your thing about hotel rooms stems from the past ... some fear story/myth told in yr family.

be brave. give it a try. tell yr boyfriend about yr fear.

cheers ...

 

Too much family baggage can be a real drag, especially if the room is really small and on the second or third floor and there's no elevator.

 

i've heard the couple fucking in the next room in every hotel i've ever been in

 

It could be a fear of travel, or fear of hotels, and the anxiety isn't due to the aspect of the relationship or sex at all.

 

because when in a hotel you always know what the other one is doing all the time.

 

Yeah, sorry. That was me. ...Alone.

 

I think your afraid that they set up cameras in your room and they are going to watch you do the deed. Dont worry though its not like it will get leaked out on the internet.

 

Go with your gut feeling.