hi I'm new to this board, i really need help/advice. i have been married for 10 years, we have 2 young children,. a couple of months ago my husband and i had a foursome with another couple, i have been really good friends with the couple for years but since it happened me and my friend kept texting, then meeting up, then we started a relationship, we have realised that we want to be together as a couple ,i love her so much and we've come to realise that all these years the hole in our marriages have been due to our men, now we have fallen for each other we want to be together. but we both have 2 small children each, so we're worried about the kids. we have alot of steps to complete before we leave our husband's .i just don't know what to do.
Gay sex is kinky as hell. Kinky stuff will make you feel incredible. Are you sure you're not just addicted to the kink-factor? The idea of leaving your man for a woman could be very exciting not because you're in love with her but because the idea is thrilling in itself. You've just discovered you love having sex with women. Women are new and exciting to you and men, your husband, is just dull and used. It's hard to explain but I feel the same way sometimes about leaving my girlfriend for a man. I love having sex with men. I think gay sex is hot and I find it hard not getting addicted to it. It sometimes makes me almost forget about my love for my girlfriend. Having an open sex relationship almost always ends up killing a marriage. Maybe not right away... but it's rarely healthy for the marriage. The second you decided to do it is when you decided to jeopardize not only your marriage but your own childrens lives. The important thing to remember is that life and love isn't about constant excitement. Edit: What I mean is... are you sure it's not that you love the idea of loving her? Why has the sex changed this all of a sudden. Why weren't you emotionally attracted to her before?
