Ok not sure if this is the right place but some advice would be great. I started a new term at university my 3rd and final year, moved in with new house mates ive never met so made soem great friends already ive been here around 2 months now and we all get on great. I get on really well with one girl and we have playful banter as you do as friends, house mates have told us to get a room on many occasions as we play fight haha. When we watch tv she sometime slightly cuddles up to me for a while which is nice, she is really flirty with me and i know that she is a flirty person but ive not seen her really flirty with another girl yet only guys. She is straight but has said if she fell in love with a girl then she falls in love with a girl. One drunken night i ended up texting her saying i would give her a better night than the guy she went home with... nothing was said. then the next day they all took the mick which was fine we all laughed it off. so she kinda got the hint i kinda liked her, since then she has been flirty still with me, and to be honest its getting annoying as i feel like im not sure if she is just flirting for the attention or not. im not sure if i explained this very well i hope you can grasp some of this. I would ask her straight out but i dont want to make things awkward as we all live in the same house
"Faint heart never won fair lady." It's a tricky situation. The world is littered with ruined friendships because one friend misread the signs from the other and tried to make the friendship sexual. (str8 and gay) Keep going the way you are, flirting lightly, having little cuddles etc until she - in a specific way indicates the direction she would like to go. Then it's up to you. Good luck. I have an inkling you might be headed in the right direction.
ive asked a few people on this and you all have different views but i will just leave it as it is, i just wanted to see what people thought and that it wasnt my mind just playing games thanks
