Turn long time girlfriend into a sex freak?

Hey guys,

I'm new here but i figured i'd ask you what you thought on this topic.

I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 5 years. We are buying a house this month and I was wondering how I could turn her into someone who is addicted to sex. I guess it is my fault for always going for the shy cute girls but she is shy, and I am the only person she's ever done anything sexual with. I don't want her to be my slave or some kinky freak. I just want her to need sex all the time.

She normally is shy in bed, not unwilling, and not displeased. once i figured out what i was doing she's been having squirting orgasms 97% of the time we have sex. She has never masturbated, and is completely unwilling to.

I was looking into rewarding her good behavior for performing any sexual act, and punishing bad behavior. This would happen obviously without force or gifts, just behind the scenes awards and punishment. I was also considering buying a good vibrating dildo with some sort of texture to it, and do her with that until she orgasms multiple times and starts to love the dildo so much she uses it herself.

I would also like to get her interested in anal, but right now she is 100% against it. not even the idea of it. Also she is completely unwilling to watch any kind of porn, even for tips.




Thanks!

 

for goodness sakes, STOP TRYING TO CHANGE YOUR GIRLFRIEND INTO WHAT YOU WANT HER TO BE!

sorry for yelling, but the point needed driven home in your noggin. sex in a relationship starts with communication. instead of asking us how to turn your sweet demure and shy gf into a sex freak, why not ask her what she wants? ask her if she would like toys brought into the bedroom. ask her if she wants your dick up her ass. ask her, ask her, ask her! and then RESPECT HER DECISION!

ps - 'regular' porn is not the source for sex tips. mainstream porn is made for men, to get off on women being used as sexual objects. gives men a very skewed view of what sex should be like. stop watching that crap. find some amateur or instructional porn where the people involved are real, loving, and care enough about each other to ensure each other are being pleasured and happy.

 

Amen to that. What if she wanted really wanted to shove a live badger up your ass? Would you be open to it? How about if she badgered you about it? (sorry couldn't resist).

You want a woman to do whatever your lascivious mind can imagine - go rent a prostitute. It'll cost you, but I absolutely guaran-fucking-tee that it will cost you less than having a girlfriend for five years.

You want to plant ideas in her head, buy some erotic fiction - no less filthy and perverted. Don't give it to her. Read it, make sure she knows you're reading it, then leave it somewhere where she can read it, when you're not around - so much more user friendly for women who don't like porn. Who could blame them? 90% of it is just some dude (or dudes) pounding the shit out of some porn star, gagging her with his dick and then shooting his load all over her face. This is what passes as pornography these days.

Women need to relate to ideas or situations in order to take interest in them. They have to be able to place themselves in these ideas/situations - notice I said place themselves - NOT BE PLACED. The women in 90% of porn look like porn stars (or cast members from the Jersey Shore). I'd wager your girlfriend doesn't dress or paint herself up like a porn star, and I'd wager she has no desire to. Sorry chum, if that's the case, your girlfriend isn't a porn star or porn star wannabe. You are not going to be able to convince her to become one. . . .

. . . and I should add - for that you should be thankful.

 

there's shy cute girls who like sex too.

the easiest way to turn your girlfriend into a sex freak is to dump your non-sex freak girlfriend and start dating a sex freak.

 

It's pretty easy, really, if you're sexually incompatible then either live with it or (gently) lose her. Trying to change (as in alter) your partner is pointless, ask any married man.

Better to find sex-mad crazy swallowing anal freak girl from the start.

(and when you do, ask if I can have her mother's number......)

 

I diagnose the OP with a virgin-whore complex. There`s no such thing as "a lady in the streets, a whore in the sheets."

There are women who are clueless about privacy and those who aren`t (rare), but you`re chasing a unicorn.