My girlfriend and I have become so greedy for physical satiation, that the act of lovemaking, without toys and props, seems so far, far away. When we embarked on the physical side of our relationship, things seemed sweeter - holding eachother innocently, gazing deeply into eachothers eyes with real love, resulting in what felt like more tender fucking. That purity has got lost though, through the inclusion of bondage (she is now cuffed and strapped to the bed every single night, all night), extreme, long-lived insertions (water balloons held in her pussy by tight bandages for an hour or more (the size of a beer can) or with me inside too with a smaller inflation; butt plugs regularly pushed into her to achieve DP sensation; beaded vibrating anal dildo; and a clit massager). Now, I feel I have to achieve a full repertoire every time we see eachother. I'm simply not feeling enough of a man on my own, most recently felt through the addition of a thickening penis sheath which renders sensations to me impossible, but makes her go wild. Should I try to take things back to the first days of love, or abandon this now deviant relationship in the quest for the purity of before with another? We've got to this stage quickly (in just over a month). I don't know what's coming next in our insatiable appetites...
You've lost that luvin feelin' Maybe have addiction to sex toys etc? Communication is best first step..... Then step back.... takes time..... Worth a try
You don't need to use sex toys everytime you are intimate - they are a benefit in some ways but just massaging your partner with your hands, without any sex taking place is possible & can be stimulating.
one day when neither of you are in the bedroom, slowly start kissing her and fondling her. take her clothes off and continue with slow and sensual foreplay. if she says anything like 'lets go to bed' or 'lets get toys', say 'i want you, only you, nothing else'. give her the best love making ever away from all the toys, gimmicks, and tricks. should help.
Been there - done that & it's a great turn on when it's warm enough to get fully naked & its warm outside / inside & you can both discover each others bodies in full daylight with the sun shining on her whole body.
Hmmm... So the mundane has now flipped and become the extraordinary There you have it... I see what you mean though.. Last time I was intimate with the missus was about 2 months before the baby was born. She had a C-section and as such still has about 2 weeks left to go before we can be intimate, but looks like that won't happen either cause we need to find a new method of birth control, and of course, baby takes all the energy away for first 3 months or so... so I've heard... So.... Be grateful you got the boring toys LOL...
You gotta all to her about this. Open communication is key to any relationship, especially in a sexual relationship.
