I have a Question, Trying this website out. Help

I have talked to my friends and such about this isssue and i am now coming to you guys for more help and opinions. No bad answers please.

Me and my girlfriend have been having sex, one day we had sex unprotected and when it came time for me to go, i pulled out and went on her stomach. We sat there kissed talked, did whatever. But then things got heated up again and we had sex again maybe 15 minutes after. I was still "leaking" from the first time if you will, while we were having sex. I did the same thing and went again on her stomach. Then it happened one more time. By the third time i was drained. But i feel as if i were leaking the whole time. I pulled out all three times. Should i have anything to worry about, when thinking of pregnancy? i know that there is always a chance but realistically, should i be worried.

Things to remember :
I pulled out in time all three times
She has been on birth control for 2 years now
It was like 2 or 3 days after she had just gotten off of her period

In advance. Thank you

 

Yes the leaking would be pre-cum also yes women can get pregnant from per-cum.
Pulling out is a old wife's tale, if you have strong swimmers she maybe pregnant .

 

Shoulda wrapped it, shoulda been worried in the first place!

 

I do wrap it, It just happened this one time. It was a in the moment kind of thing. I know, stupid and immature. I know its possible and this and that. What i was really wondering i guess, was with me pulling out, and it not being a full load and her also being on birth control, and her fresh off of her period. What are my real chances?

 

you said she is on birth control. you mean the pill? because if she is, there is no way she is pregnant

 

The pull out system does not work. If she is on the pill though I would not worry about it.

 

True, the pill works! So you shouldn't have anything to sweat about!

 

baby names

 

as long as she is CONSISTENT on the pill, then it should be effective against pregnancy. If she's bad at remembering to take the pill, then you could have gotten her pregnant.

 

dunno Mate ... but remind me of the time standing against the wall of the hallway the missus said no, no, don't, I 'll get pregnant. and sure enuf she had twins.

 

Never put complete faith in the pill, especially if you're not the one actually taking it,and since you're a dude, then you shouldn't be putting faith in the pill. Yes, if getting your girlfriend pregnant is a concern, you should be concerned. Sperm are determined little bastards and your seminal fluid is jam packed full of 'em, at all times. The only way to cheat the reproductive system is to completely take the egg or the sperm out of the game. Believe it or not, you do have complete control of where your seminal fluid dares to venture - you do NOT have control of what your girlfriend ingests.

So unless you're ready and willing to be a daddy, I suggest YOU take a less cavalier approach to the handling of your fluids. I've had women try to cajole me by saying "it's alright, I'm on the pill". Well let me tell you something, unless I'm 100% certain that I would, in fact, want to become a parent with this person, I'm going to wear a condom, and I'm going be hypervigilant about the integrity of that condom while it's in use. No one is ever going to convince me that a male can't tell the exact moment that a condom breaks. The few times that it's happened to me, I sure as hell knew it and I got the purple headed warrior out of there faster than you can say "fetus", and I remedied the situation faster than you can say "conception" and hardly missed a beat. Babies are not something to be taken lightly.

 

why didnt anyone pick up on this FACT that you wrote in your post ???

she was safe if her period finished 3 days prior, in fact she was safer than she would have been if you was wearing a condom.

plus if she was consistent on the pill and you had no problems before then her being on the pill alone makes it pretty safe.

also, why did you CUM outside her if she was on the pill, and she should also know that she was safe if she just finished her period a few days earlier.

your implying that a woman can't get pregnant on the pill and they can, so she was not necessarily safe at all, but she was safe because she had only finished her period 3 days before, and all you women should know that.

my god man, what a dramatic post you made here.

anyway, my wife is nearly 50, she went off the pill at 43 and we never used any contraception except the "pull it out" method and we never once scored a direct hit, but the best time for sex was the 5 safe days after she finished her period, i could cum inside her without any fear.

 

The "leaking" was probably a combination of pre-cum and semen-sperm remaining in your urethra after the first ejaculation. She could be pregnant.

 

Congratulations...your going to be a dad.

 

Man, don't let all these guys get you scared!!I mean there is a small (very small) chance she could be prego. I have been with my man for ten years. He has always used the pull out method & we have no children. Out of those ten years I was on the pill for two. I went off the pill because my body didn't seem to like it & the doctor didn't give the shots. Anyways I have never had a scare or anything, with that being said I think that you will be fine since you pulled out & she is on the pill too. There always is a chance , but I don't see it happening.
Good Luck !!!

 

There is much less sperm in pre cum, and the chances are greatly reduced that shes been on the pill for two years, but still you never know so you should just do a few pregnancy tests just to make sure and if you are going to be this worried again why not just put a condom on?

Also if you are going to do a pregnancy test with her make sure its according the instructions, i had one a few days ago which said i had to the day before my period was due to be as advertised on the packet 99% correct, if you do it on other days it is not 99% correct, read the fine print. Ive had a few others that dont care what day you do the test!

Good luck

 

Anecdotal evidence is not something you want to base a decision or behavior that could bring a life into this world. It's a fact that some men and women are more fertile than others. I know plenty of dad's that relied on the pullout method. I know plenty of dad's who trusted their girlfriends with the pill. All I'm saying is this: If you are a male, and you don't want to reproduce, you have the ability to rein in your sperm carrying fluids and astronomically reduce the chance that you will conceive a child with a condom, and "pulling out" does not cut it, all by itself, in my humble opinion. You need to treat that stuff with the respect that a life altering substance deserves, or be prepared to step up and be a responsible father.

 

the proof is in the pudding..

 

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what am I missing here?

 

She most likely isn't pregnant, and really all signs point to she wouldn't be anyway judging from what you said.. She has been on the pill for two years, meaning she would need to be off the pill for a bit before she would be normal again anyway.. And 3 days off her period, party time!

Nah, she's not pregnant,

Still shoulda worn your raincoat though if you were that worried about it...