Hello, Long story short : i am a guy 32 years old and i want some advise on a girl situations ... i have a friend she is not my best friend or anything but just good friends ... we met few years ago and been good friends since then. one of my friend introduce us and we also worked together for few months in a nice small company in 2009, and she was laid off but i kept in touch with her ... recently we been not talking for almost a year or two but just saying hi or txt from time to time ... finally i was able to get in touch with her and she is going to meet me for coffee. i been wanting to ask her to be my FWB or sexual friend but i am not sure how to start the conversations. i am scared she will say no or she wont be my friend anymore. But in same time she is a kinda bigest whore i know she sleeps around with guys and she is almost 41 years old very slim cute lady .. nice heart and clean too but just full off drama and issue and games and lies .. so how can i start the conversations with her ? how to ask her to be my fwb ? Please advise Thank you
First off, sounds pretty shallow to be looking for some ass rather then trying to be better friends. You barely talk to her much and now all of a sudden you want to have sex with her, but nothing more. The fact that you're assuming that she would be interested because you think she's a whore doesn't say much of your opinion of her either. Regardless, if you're set in your ways, the only way to truly get something like this is to build up a relationship with her where sex becomes a common topic of conversation. Unless she's a complete whore and will have sex with you just by asking, there's no conversation that you can have over coffee that will lead to FWB that easily. Try becoming better friends, talk more, and then have conversations about sex. Not "will you have sex with me", but getting advice, asking questions, stuff like that. Become good friends and get to know her, then get to know her personal side. Once sex becomes a comfortable topic and you form this bond, it should be easier to get to the next step. My advise though, someone like who you're describing, full of drama and sleeps around, not worth wasting time on.
as i said it is long story short .. so much else is their but any way thanks but i am not looking for moral advise .. ok so can anyone advise on how to make this easier and non offensive when bring this topic to my friend ... again i been a good friend with her and helped alot in the past as a close friend but i dont think i am a best freid with her so let move on again Thanks for the advise
Help is spelled with 1 L, and it's advice not advise. Biggest has 2 g's. Sorry all I can help you with is your spelling.
i can't figure out how to get a fwb either, but i'm pretty sure it's not finding someone you barely know and saying out of nowhere "hey, wanna be my fwb?"
Start with a nice romantic evening, kiss her, and tell her you would really like to have sex with her,that you have always liked her a lot. Be gentle, but direct, looking in her eyes as you say it.
