This is the question. I know variety is the spice of life and all that, but it seems there's two opposing views with regards to the use of the tongue when giving a blowjob. I know there's men who feel a good blowjob consists of nothing but high pressure lip action, and the mouth should serve as basically a surrogate vagina. I'm not of that persuasion myself - the best blowjobs for me have been with the girl twirling her tongue around my knob like it's a lollipop - but I've heard from reliable sources that there are men who can do without the tongue altogether. For them the whole idea of the blowjob is ruined by excessive licking of the glans. Weird but true.
I always use tongue on my man and he loves it! he does like a bit of no tongue and just mouth wrapped tight around his dick but he deffo prefers tongue licking away and twiddling around on his knob lol
a mix of both - i always use my tongue on guys as well as lips only and deep throat - heaps of saliva and foreskin play Simon :sunny:
i like to receive it with tongue play and only lips.. no hands! it feels wonderful to feel the pressure of her lips.. her hands should be on my balls or playing with my nipples!!!
Too much twirling tongue is a distraction for me. I like the hands involved. I love to have my nuts fondled while getting sucked and I like the shaft being stroked and jerked while she bobs on the knob. Call it a good handjob with a touch of sucking.
A combination is nice: licking, especially under the head, is great at getting me hard. Sucking hard combined with some hand action is a major part too. And sometimes (but not always) I really enjoy the lip action. Much as with other things, the same thing every time gets boring, I like to mix it up, and I can cum from any of them done well.
My friend once told me too that a blowjob was supposed to simulate a vagina. How sad. There's one in between the girls legs. =[ shouldn't the sensation be different, like a blowjob? I don't see variety in simulating the same sensations.
