Basically I have casual sex all the time, but rarely date women. I don't look at women as objects or any of that but I essentially only date women who I have an awful lot in common with (a rare event). I was talking to a nice girl who I recently kissed (I invited her back to mine but she said no) and she was asking if we were together. I flat out said no (her personality is too weak for me) and she questioned why. I said I thought we weren't quite compatible and she said why not give it a try anyway? Is it odd that I don't feel the desire to "give it a go"?