Guys so my two friends dated a girl who I'd hung out with before them. She cheated on both of them with one another in high school but we all remained close friends after everything. She still dates one but she works with me downtown and has since changed into a much cooler and more mature person. So she gets cheated on but can't leave her boyfriend, so we hook up months later. Because we've known each other so long and really have a strong connection, it was the best experience I've ever had. We would hook up at work, touch each other in secret, etc, but now she feels too guilty and doesn't think she can break up so she wants to stop. I don't want to date her, we both agreed to friends with benefits, but I think her and her boyfriend/my friend, would be better off single, they're opposites, but attached. And I don't want to stop
Shit even the tl;dr will be too long: TL;DR, my best friend dates my two best friends and cheats, current boyfriend cheats, we start hooking up, she says we have to stop because she feels too guilty and 'can't go on forever in a lie', best experience I ever had because we're such close friends, don't want to stop. But its all in the fine details really
Its mostly the fact that we've been friends for so long and through so much change, we've almost become the same person. Cheating on her first dude was wrong but it did end an extremely terrible dead end relationship, then she was cheated on and never fully went back to fully loving and trusting Jessie. She's freespirited, maybe to a fault, but way too much for his logical/calculating/controlling way of treating her. Am I being selfish for wanting her? But not as a girlfriend? From watching her experiences, I dont want to end up in these guys' position but we just have perfect sex
So 4 best friends (1 girl, 3 guys)? IMO the worst thing a girl can do is come between best friends. Search "bros before hoes" and familiarize yourself with the code. You guys have all had your turn with her, so bond together and don't let her come between you (anymore). Lots of friendships get ruined by stuff like this.
