Anal/ Toilet Question...

Hi, this is my first post! It may seem a bit of a strange one, but hey ho!
Me and my bf have decided we are going to try anal, this may seem like a bit of an odd question, but do you always ensure you have been to the loo before you do it? (as in a no2?) maybe this is TMI but normally I go first thing every morning when I get up... seem fairly regular at that time hehe!
What im getting at is, if I were to attempt(!) anal in the evening would it be a bit risky? I don't want it to get too messy, I would of course shower before hand.
Basically, if you have a toilet routeen does it have to be slightly altered on the days I do anal or should I not worried about it? i.e hold it in until the evening!
What are your thoughts?
Thanks

Becca x

 

It really all depends on the muscles in your butt and the positions your in. For instance, you'll barely have a problem if your standing up. I personally wouldn't want to be squatting.
Since you're gonna be showering anyway, just have a poke around with your finger, you should do that anyway to clean the area out. Most stomachs are active throughout the early mornings so if you're going to the toilet in the morning and only once a day then you should be okay in the afternoon/evening. You may wake up with a stomach ache though.

 

In all my years, after hundreds, perhaps thousands of times of having anal sex I've never known it to be "messy".

Though of course it would depend on what your definition of "messy" is. 99% of the time the rectum is empty and clean. Things pass through; it is not a holding area. In any case, you and your bf would want to wash or shower after anyway, right?

 

just get yourself a rubber bulb douche and wash out a couple of times with warm water.

enjoy,

Simon :sunny:

 

hi, there are lots of threads posted about this topic in this section of the forum, i suggest you go read as many as you can before venturing into the unknown for the first time.

what, are you suggesting that the passage just inside the anus would be clean and free of any leftovers just after you have been to the loo ???

have you ever done an enema after going to the loo, me and my wife have, and i can tell you it was never a pretty sight what gets flushed out the ass even after you think its empty.

also, having a shower after anal sex doesnt mean getting a bit messy during anal sex is ok, many people prepare properly for anal sex because they find the thought of it being even a little bit messy pretty unpleasant, and i am one of them, which is why me and my wife prep properly, so we can enjoy it without getting any mess.

there may be a small amount of santorum even after an enema, so nothing is guarenteed, but at least its not bits of lumpy poop.

 

All I'm saying GAP is that the state of both myself and my partner after anal sex does not meet my definition of "messy". It obviously does to you.

It's not clear from the OP whether they are expecting bucket loads of shit to be spraying up the walls, OK?

 

LoL

 

i think you took my post a bit too personally, but i simply took what you said in your post about the inside of the anus not being a holding area as meaning it has nothing in there, or that it is clean, so it should not pose a threat to cleanliness, and i was just making the point that it may not be a holding area, but it isnt free of debri either, and not flushing it out may result in things getting a bit messy, but if you dont have a problem with that the thats great for you.

its all good.

i just edited the last line in the post you quoted from here, i realized what i wrote was kind of wrong in that it made it seem like santorum is not "poop" when it is a mix of that and fluids.

cheers

 

Okay ... you "go" in the morning and want to do anal at night.

If everything about you is normal and healthy, there should be no problems at all.
the colon usually pushes "the stuff" into the rectum which then sends a signal you need to go.
It won't be there 12 hours beforehand or else you'd know.

Just be normal clean.

 

Well if you will use multiple question marks "???" which usually denotes utter disbelief then what kind of reaction do you expect? Nobody reacts very well when it is implied that they are being either dishonest or factually wrong when neither is the case.

In any case, at least you now realise (hopefully) that "messy" is entirely subjective. The worst I've encountered in many years is the odd fleck or a tiny amount slightly discoloured lube residue. Maybe you've been unlucky; I don't know or care I was just giving the OP the benefit of my experience.

 

That's pretty much it. My wife tells me that she's cleared the way for me. We've done it basically right after she poops and its never been a problem. Buttholes self cleanse I suppose.

 

guys move it to the flame wars msg area, this isnt hot anymore

as for douches, i mostly avoid. things stay pretty 'wet' in there for a while after, takes the rectum a while to reabsorb the liquid, and any 'wetter' in there than normal is going to wash things down more so if you do, wait a few hours. for cleaning, if i've gone to the loo, more moisture has been moved down from the colon into the rectum, so I usually dont play for a few hours. or, i lube up a smaller dildo in the shower and plunge+wash+relube (minimal lube necessary) if it seems like it might be a bit messy.

heh sometimes having a drink an hour or so before, because alcohol is such a diuretic, as well as loosening me up (mentally? ahem! a bit more, works well

most important: BE PREPARED to deal with a little bit of messyness. if you are connected and communicating with your partner, it shouldnt be a big deal and everyone will live to come another day, ya? its all for pleasure, dont forget to not get upset or embarassed! its no big deal! (but really, there's been minimal mess for the 100s of times i've been with boys and it wasnt like someone sprayed the walls as one poster suggested.. .that'd be an issue lol).

 

This was also on my mind but my BF gives me the word he is expecting anal in a few days.....so I go to the extreme of barely eating and ensuring I am clean as. I would say we only have anal once every two months or so.

 

Don't fool yourselves. There is always shit in there without an enema! After taking a shit is when you're cleanest. If you stick your finger up your bum after taking a shit, it will come out covered in shit.

The bowel is also storing shit for quite alot of the time too when u wouldn't realise it

 

Yes, your finger will come out caked in a layer of steaming, dripping brown goo several inches thick.

(That was sarcasm by the way, for those who are a bit slow)

If you are talking about the rectum, then no, you are quite wrong. Moreover, the idea of 'storing' within any part of the bowel is an odd one; the contents are supposed to be kept in constant motion by peristalsis.

 

Constant motion until they get to the end

 

I say plenty of fiber in the diet, and he should expect the eventuality that someday there's bound to be slight residue. Tis' a quite the fool that'd never expect it. Besides it's nothing a shower doesn't fix up.

 

dont barely eat, thats not healthy. just eat a proper diet with lots of fibre (ie veggies and whole grains) and you'll pass nice solid stools </doctormode>. not much will be left inside, and you can put a couple soapy fingers in back there make sure its all good, or my small lubed dildo trick (slide in wash, relube, slide in, dont get too much lube in there , make it thin enough to require almost no lube, dont want a lube enema! tho it is kinda prelubing you so also handy

also 'expecting' is a little... controlling. if yer into that kinda thing, cool, but dont let it dominate you (unless again thats the relationship you want). Anal is a bit trickier than vaginal, and sometimes, rarely (cuz im mostly an anal slut I just feel... 'off' back there and no amount of coaxing or even being turned on makes it feel good. Rare these days tho hehe, but i remember it happening a few times. Inthat case, your partner just has to make do with other pleasures, as in any healthy communicative relationship ya?

 

learn some anatomy. waste isnt stored in the rectum, it is stored above the sigismoidal curve in the end of the colon, above the rectum (this is why deep pounding might be a bit messier, but you need a pretty long gentleman to get that to happen - or if you put really huge things in, it opens the rectum up so much it also teases open the sphincter to the colon, which is an interesting sensation Both can be cleaned out with a deep enema, bu the time before play is long to reabsorb all the water.

I've had anal with no warning what so ever (car, long drive, falling a sleep, nice little wake up fuck) and it was fine and clean, even finished in my mouth.