Is there something wrong with me?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by tayworrr, Nov 16, 2012.

  1. tayworrr

    tayworrr Banned

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    I've never liked sex. Never had it, prob and hopefully never will too.
    Everytime I think about it I feel sick, just wanna throw up!
    And I have really hard to trust boys cuz all they think about is sex, I suppose I would give him some just for him to be pleasured, but I just think its gross! My bf got his cum over me once, I just ran to the bathroom and threw up. I dont really feel attracted to anyone either.

    So my question is, is this normal or is there something wrong with me?
     
  2. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    well, judging by evolution and the world's population - it's not normal is it?

    you might find that your feelings change as you get older, but how come you had a bf and he was masturbating if you say you've never had any sex?

    Or of course you might prefer women and be lesbian.

    Simon :sunny:
     
  3. 1r0n_0x1d3

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    You maybe A-sexually it is not the normal but there are some people out there that just don't like sex you maybe one of those people.Nothing wrong with that at all. In a world where you can be anyone be yourself.
     
  4. Str8-n-Pantyhose

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    Tayworrr, There is nothing wrong with you! Some people just aren't atracted to it! DON'T do it just because! Your first time should be a special memory, not one you willlook back on going FUK why did I do that!
     
  5. Aerianne

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    Give it some time. You've got other issues to deal with before you're emotionally ready. You're 17 with cutting issues.
     
  6. tayworrr

    tayworrr Banned

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    All true... But I feel bad for not wanting to have sex with him.
     
  7. tayworrr

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    Yeah I've had some thinking about it... But I really dont feel like going to therapy again.
     
  8. Aerianne

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    First learn to enjoy yourself and everything else that being 17 has to offer. There's time enough left in life for sex when you find yourself desiring it.
     
  9. 1r0n_0x1d3

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    ^^^^
    I would listen to that lady
     
  10. tayworrr

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    mmm sure, being 17 is really fun... NOT! What should I do start smoking and drinking? I'm really asocial, not to mention shy, so I dont have any friends at all.
     
  11. tayworrr

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    lol, my parents would kill me if I'd become lesb.
     
  12. Aerianne

    Aerianne Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    No, I wouldn't suggest smoking and drinking to you.

    Look for something you'd enjoy volunteering at.
     
  13. 1r0n_0x1d3

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    Some people will always need parents.
     
  14. tayworrr

    tayworrr Banned

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    YES! Or at least someone else who can take care of u... If I didnt have my mom, I'd prob be dead by now.
     
  15. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    If you don't like sex, accept that. Focus on other areas of your life.

    In fact you'll probably do really well in other areas of your life w/out worrying too much about that side of life. It just won't be a stressor for you.
     
  16. lidanny

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    My friends wife does not like sex either and she is married with a child. My wife is friends with her so that is how I know. I was surprised to hear it but my wife explained that it is very common. If you don't like it then it kinda takes some of the complications out of life if you really think about it. Of course if that is the case then you should not have boy friends in the intimate sense of the term. You should avoid guys that want an intimate relationship otherwise you will just have to keep confronting the issue.
     
  17. tayworrr

    tayworrr Banned

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    true true
     
  18. tayworrr

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    Married w a child?
     
  19. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    Ehh maybe you should smoke pot.

    Not for friends, but because it's a lot of fun.

    It won't make you more social though, maybe less social.
     
  20. tayworrr

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    Yeah and who wants that?
    Lol actually crack kids have many friends, but I dont wanna be around such kind of ppl.
     
  21. lidanny

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    Good! Your not missing anything. Drugs can easily get in the way of all kinds of good things.
     

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