He was abused as a kid by a man and a woman, he found it hard to be with a man and a woman but found it easier wit a man because he said he is one and has the same anatomy. He is a butt and legs man loves my box but boobs are pretty but nothing special to him. He says he has had a lot more experience with men so he knows what he wants wit them but I'm his first proper relationship wit a woman he has to learn what he wants wit me. I need help badly cos I'm dying inside not knowing. Thoughts?
you got to love him, you either love him the way he likes being loved, or hes going to break loose and be loved somewhere else.. what is he fixated on,?. is he sexual with you, and how you treating him. whats his role? .. if he is still struggling with the abuse, maybe he needs counseling.. or find out how he enjoy sex to the fullest and go from there.. cant keep dwelling on it. emotionally, psychically,sexually. what does he want from you?
Is he vocal about his abuse? I would suggest you try and talk to him about seeing a therapist, it may not provide all the answers, and he may even realize he is more gay than bi, but that is a good way for him to sort out his emotions.